James

Okay I will admit, I am young and irresponsible. I am 17 and after 5 months now of unprotected sex finishing inside her, she still hasn’t missed a single period. Is one of us infertile?

I thought that when you're truly in love with someone all you want is for them to be happy right? Then why are we sad when they break up and they're happy. If they're happy then shouldn't we be at peace if we really love them?

Eg, I’ll recommend we watch something like breaking bad and she’ll say no. Why don’t you want to? Because my mum wanted me to and I said no. A lot of the time it’s irrational reasons. She gave the last of us game a chance, she’s played it 2 hours (with very low effort making me do hard bits) I mean so low effort she won’t even really bother to look around just walk on the stick and walk into stuff. We’re just at the bit where you get to know the characters, granted it had a slow start but she’s already given up on it. She hasn’t even given it a chance or bothered to stay with characters. Or she’ll try learn guitar. Tries to learn one song, with minimal effort, struggle (as anyone would the first day learning guitar) ... guess what? Given up. Let’s watch this thing on North Korea this looks interesting! Nah that’s boring. It’s almost like she has no intellectual curiosity either. I feel she never puts any effort into trying new things which is why she does the same things and watches the same drama soaps all the time. She’ll go “Look I tried didn’t I?” After watching the first 10 minutes. She doesn’t force me to watch her soaps but that’s because I watch her stuff already out of respect for her, even if I’m not interested. Like how does she know she won’t like breaking bad if she has no idea what it’s about and hasn’t tried it. I guarantee it’s far more interesting and emotionally investing than some boring old soap. I understand entertainment is subjective but up to when?

Right now I feel so agnonisingly bored of life. Nothing to talk about, TV? Boring. YouTube? Boring. Snapchat? Boring. Movies? Boring. Games? Boring. Nothing keeps my attention I just feel bored all the time and can’t keep living like this!

So, my friend and his girlfriend were with my girlfriend. She was making out with his girlfriend to “teach her how to kiss” because they’re both horrible apparently. But she also kissed my guy friend... for a couple seconds. I wasn’t there but she apparently changed and was very quiet for the rest of the night. She tells me later what happened begging for forgiveness. Should I? How am I supposed to believe she loves me when she did something she knew would hurt me?

Hi, so I met my girlfriend(17) online and recently we met up for the first time. We live far away and when we met up we had sex. It was my first time, I was stupid and didn’t use protection. Anyway as a result the mother thinks I’m irresponsible and won’t let me see her. Is this repairable? What should I do?

So I have this new teacher for psychology. And I’ve heard from members of the other class that she chats **** about my class. Idk it makes me feel sad and lose motivation for the subject. She’ll always pick on me over minute things, like she’ll yell at me for talking even if it’s something important like “hey pass me a sheet” or “can I borrow a ruler” under my breath. Whereas the other class chats about anything and she doesn’t care? I think the difference is me and my friend are very, eager to speak up when we disagree with something. And we spoke up against something on the spec, about how it is socially engineering our moral code to be “politically correct” and ever since then she’s been cold. How do I resolve this? 

I often have this happen to me when someone is evidently struggling or just not having a good time. And I know how to fix the issue, or how to help. For example, someone had an argument, I know the other side of the argument because I speak to the other person and can EASILY resolve the issue as it's just a miscommunication thing, but often get "it's none of your business", or "you always try to get involved when I try to explain. So they get angry. Why do so many people think it's inherently bad to get involved with things? Like, I'm  choosing to use my effort and time to help you and you're complaining? What can do I say in response to this?

Hi, so I've started pullups but I just can't feel my lats. Like, I can pull myself over the bar but I mainly just feel it in my rhomboids and traps. I've tried leg assisted ones with muscle mind connection  tips such as "armpits being tickled" and "bring your elbows down to your hips" and I just cannot feel them being used. Any tips?

I got a pullup bar to workout my weak lats. At the start, last week I couldn't do one. So I would jump and try to slow my descent as much as possible. And, it kinda worked. Before, I could barely even move an inch without jumping, but now I can pull myself over the bar much much easier. Issue being, my elbow hurts.. my tendon in my elbow hurts whenever I try to do them now. But I need to rest to fix my elbow losing all my progress, then I'll just injure it again trying to get back to where I am now. I can't do correct form yet, so how am I supposed to do them without injuring my elbow again?

Hey so I've been skinny all my life, but with chubby cheeks because of an eating disorder. However, I'm improving so I'm now gaining weight. Issue is my cheeks... they aren't getting any slimmer, even after working out for a few weeks.. What are some effective ways to tone my face and get hollow cheeks? My face fat kinda... sags. W  hen I pull my face fat up I'm 10 x more attractive. I keep seeing that blowing balloons slims your face, but then there are articles saying it adds "beef" to your face and puffs cheeks up? There's a lot of contradicting information out there. Was hoping you guys could help. Thanks!

Ok so I'm really confused where I'm at in puberty at the moment and if it's going correctly. I'm 16.5yo male currently. I realised I still look young relatively to everyone else my age. I think this is due to my height at 5'6"as I was on medical steroids for 3 years. But also my baby face. Shouldn't my face be maturing by now? My pubic hair is now thick and spread to legs. My side burns are now getting thicker with hairs starting to appear on my cheeks. Yet I still look so young. I'm short, with a chubby face, with no muscle development with low appetite. I'm like a matchstick. Much different to my father who is 6'1" and overweight. I have noticed tender swelling to my breast area, so I think I'm developing Gynecomastia. What should I expect in the next few years?