Kate

I just don't know what to do! I'm 28yrs old, and I've been with my bf for close to 2.5yrs. I love him, but we never have sex anymore (he never wants to) and I feel like our sexual chemistry is close to gone. I live with him, but lately I've been extremely bored and easily annoyed by him at times.

The other man actually used to be my boss until almost 2yrs ago when he took a new position in the company, and I left the company altogether.We stayed in touch via text and phone call ever since.I've actually always liked him, since I met him in '15 so I've liked him longer than I have my bf. I always kept my feelings secret. I always had a feeling he liked me,but didn't know if I was just seeing what I wanted to see. The other night I was at a bar, and he texted me as he was leaving one also asking me to call him.We spoke for 25 mins and he came right out and told me he "really liked me a lot", liked talking to me,and he said that we had potential and that there was potential for something to happen between us if we were alone together.These are words I've been dreaming of him saying to me for so long.On top of it all, he is now finalizing his divorce that started 2 months ago,and he is really happy and said he's ready to move forward.We now talk on the phone for close to an hr all the time,he tells me many details about his life, and we always talk about going out for drinks.He's all I think about now! I don't know what to do!

I just don't know what to do! I'm 28yrs old, and I've been with my bf for close to 2.5yrs. I love him, but we never have sex anymore (he never wants to) and I feel like our sexual chemistry is close to gone. I live with him, but lately I've been extremely bored and easily annoyed by him at times.

The other man actually used to be my boss until almost 2yrs ago when he took a new position in the company, and I left the company altogether.We stayed in touch via text and phone call ever since.I've actually always liked him, since I met him in '15 so I've liked him longer than I have my bf. I always kept my feelings secret. I always had a feeling he liked me,but didn't know if I was just seeing what I wanted to see. The other night I was at a bar, and he texted me as he was leaving one also asking me to call him.We spoke for 25 mins and he came right out and told me he "really liked me a lot", liked talking to me,and he said that we had potential and that there was potential for something to happen between us if we were alone together.These are words I've been dreaming of him saying to me for so long.On top of it all, he is now finalizing his divorce that started 2 months ago,and he is really happy and said he's ready to move forward.We now talk on the phone for close to an hr all the time,he tells me many details about his life, and we always talk about going out for drinks.He's all I think about now! I don't know what to do!

My former boss and I were very close when we worked together, and though he left the store about 9 months ago, and then I left 6 months ago, we still keep in touch. We text constantly, and talk on the phone all the time.

Anyway, he keeps telling me I owe him a few drinks, or that he's waiting for me to ask him to go for drinks. He's 37, I'm 27. Why does he want to get drinks with me? I'm almost positive he knows I'm attracted to him so if anything I would think that would deter him from asking. Any help?

I m a supervisor of my dept, but he s assistant store director. The two of us are very close, and he shares a lot of personal and confidential info w me. He s called me sweetheart before..I bought him a Xmas present he loved and he called me a sweetheart...said he d hug me but he d get fired lol. Yesterday we were paging each other, walking around the store together back and forth

Then he paged me specifically cus he lost his paperwork he s required to have on him at all times-confidencial info that he s told me about. He asked me to try to look for it if I could. I eventually found it, and when I brought it to him he didn t say thank you, he said "Aren t you a sweetheart" in a dragged out, kind way. Then said "if I ever become someone important, I might make you my assistant" with a teasing smile. Is there a reason he didn t just say thank you?

This guy I work with, ok hes my mgr but him and I are super close. I can confide in him, swear in front of him, tell him my social life, and he shares his. Sometimes tho, when its just us as he walks into the room I m in or he s just seeing me for the 1st time in hrs that day, he ll walk up to me with this weird smile where he flashes his teeth real quick, then the smile is gone. It looks totally forced and awkward, but that s part of what makes it cute. he doesn t do it to anyone else, so why does he smile so oddly time to time?

I talk to him more than other employees, unless they are a dept head. In fact, I ll go to his office before each shift and he tells me to take a seat. Sometimes he offers me water. I check in with him when I leave to sometimes. Every time I talk to him though, he remembers things I said forever ago, and somehow turned little things I said before into teasing comments now. Literally every single say, including on a Wed, he asks me what my plans are. I told him about a horribly failed date once, and he always asks me if I m going on a date that night, in a slightly teasing, slightly curious manner. I accidentally called him cute the other day when a female customer was rude to me, but super nice to him. He responded "You re gonna make me blush!" I noticed after I said that he s been standing a bit closer to me when he s on the floor, and really locks eyes harder. Keeps making comments about brushing my car off after these snow storms. Then again I could be imagining it. Everyone else says he s so quiet and reserved. With me, he s really funny, and always concerned about my health, my family, my social life especially. Is that just how really good managers act or is there potentially a bit more there?

My fwb (we go back to being friends since '11) have been fwb for about 4 months now, after a 5mo streak over a yr ago. We never made rules, just not to tell anyone. He's become more sensual, but I think that's his style. Last night he carried me to the bedroom, looked at and felt every inch of my body, and while I was on top he made eye contact and didn't let go for a second. It wasn't awkward at all, it was great. But is that normal for a male fwb? Or does that kind of eye contact mean something?

I'm a 25yo woman, he's a guy. We spend a lot of time together buy I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. He either likes me, or genuinely cares about me. How do I know the difference?

I heard he has a gf from someone, but he s never mentioned her to me. In fact, he s shared a ton of personal info with me, but never mentioned a gf. I have a feeling he is at least attracted or interested, but what are some good signs?

I love my boss. He's super smart, efficient, kind, funny, and looks like Clark Kent lol. I've noticed that is terrible at discretion. He blatantly checks me out- he only does it while we're having a convo, but I'll watch his eyes move down to my a$$ and back to my eyes. I have a small chest but I catch him looking time to time. Today I went running towards him so I could catch him before he got too far away...I saw him look at my chest as I ran! He also laughed at me like I was being cute. He compliments my hair when I style it different, and today told me it was messy just to tease me and "get me thinking".

He's taken me under his wing. He's already taught me how to do things for other depts. that they don't know how to do themselves. Now he said he wants to teach me how to do some other paperwork. It's actually work that he is doing regularly, but says I can help him. (I've been begging to do new projects, but this is a big one). Also, all I have to do is smile and bat my lashes and he just laughs and lets me do whatever project or assignment I want to do at the moment. He hardly talks to anyone else unless they are dept head mgrs.. Why is he doing all this?

My FWB is 32, I'm 25. We met in 2011 when he got transferred to my store, as my new mgr. In 2013 He was transferred again, so now he is no longer my mgr.A few months after he was transferred he asked me to come to his apt. We kissed once when he drove me home.The chemistry was established, or sexual chemistry anyway. The sex was amazing, and we hooked up 11x before I totaled my car and it came to an end. When I started driving again, he asked me to come back. It had been over a yr, and the sex is now better than before!We always watch tv, talk, play fight, &watch more tv when we're finished. What's different:

Usually it's me who is always trying to set up plans to hook up, but the past 4 times, he's been asking me, even getting bummed if I'm unable.It's like the tables have turned! He knows I cook, and I sent him pics of my moms Christmas cookies. He asks for cookies and other food. Is that normal? For a FWB to start asking for homemade food?

Yesterday we were texting and he was trying to make me laugh. He told me he had a funny fact he knew I'd like, and that he was gonna start calling me Ally from the show "Austin and Ally". (His 7yr old daughter watches the show). He said it wasn't an insult, it was "Just the way you act and funny sides of info you always have". So he's memorized how I act/say things to the point he thought of a character similar to me? Is that normal?

Is it possible there might be a bit more going on here, or is this totally normal FWB behavior?

Typically before each shift, I'll stop in his office and chat for a few minutes. I'm really the only one who does this. I'm working on my business degree, and he spent about an hour helping me with my final paper. He called me a very smart girl, once said I was smarter than him (when I thought of something he didn't), and complimented my intercom paging voice.

Today I gave him his Christmas present-a bottle of Hendricks-his favorite. He called me a sweetheart, called me sweet multiple times and said "I'd hug you, but I'd probably get fired", and let out an awkward chuckle. Then he asked if I changed my hair today, and that it looked nice. Was he flirting with me?

I'm going to bring a casserole dish to a friend...should I bake it 1st, or bring it as is and have them bake it and eat it fresh? I'm not sure what the proper way to so this is.

I m a 25y old woman, currently going to school for business, while working in a supermarket for the past 6yrs as a supervisor of the check out dept. We got a new asst. mgr a few months ago that no one conversates w casually cus they all think he s really reserved and boring. He talks to me tho, and now laughs at things I say when I m not always trying to be funny, when he doesn t laugh with anyone. He asks me questions, and I know more stuff about his personal life than any other mgr, right down to his favorite drink. I catch him checking me out AS im talking to him! He s complimented a few times- nothing out of line. He told me my voice on the intercom was very professional, called me a pretty smart girl, and even complimented my nails once when I got them done! Now he s helping me with a paper for school, and offered to stay late to help. He said "I wouldn t do this for just anybody, you know that right?" Was he insuating something? I ll go to talk to him in his office, (no one does unless its work related) and he invites me in to have a seat and offers me water. He also claimed me his "new asst" to my dept head. Does he just like my work ethic and enthusiasm and that I enjoy his company, or does he like me? He seems to go out of his way to make time for me, and he remembers things about my life I don t even remember telling him! Am I making this up in my head? Please no sarcasm. I need to know what I m dealing with.

There's this guy, who I thought was at least 21. I'm 24. I instantly thought he was very attractive, and as we started talking, he seemed really nice and funny. Then I found out he was 16! He msgd me on fb one day, and we started talking every night until 3am. Conversation just flows! He shared all kinds of personal stuff with me, and our dynamic in person isn't awkward at all. Since then, he's called me beautiful, and gave me all sorts of compliments about my personality. He's really funny and smart, and he picks up on things other guys don't. He even said he likes my voice, laugh, walk, the way I talk and cute little things like that. He does't look his age, and doesn't act it at all. He came to visit me at work the other day, which is actually how I met him-I'm his supervisor. He wants to go out some day to the mall or movies, and even mentioned bringing me to a concert if I wanted to. I know it sounds really taboo, but what should I do? He told me he likes me, and I hate to say it, but I think I'm starting to like him too. I thought he was older so it doesn't help, but any advice?

He held me for 2 hrs..does it mean anything?

So this guy "mike" I used to work w invited me out to the bar Fri night w a couple of his friends I also know. He sat next to me, not his friend at the bar and we talked and laughed for a long time.

We stayed till close and by then I was pretty drunk. (I didn't black out I was still aware of myself). I did fall in the parking lot tho, and not only did he make sure I was ok but he voluntarily held my hand every time I had to pee so I wouldn't fall over. We couldn't get in the truck cus one of the guys was in it foolin around w his gf (it was her truck and she was at the bar the whole night too) it was freezing, so I squeezed Mike tight real quick but he ended up holding me for 2hrs tight keeping me warm. We kissed a few times (no tongue). When we were finally about to leave he climbed in the back of the truck with me and I played in his lap and we cuddled. At that pt I wasn't drunk at all.

My question is...did he do that cus he was cold too, cus he was just being nice, or was there maybe something more?

So this guy "mike" I used to work w invited me out to the bar Fri night w a couple of his friends I also know. He sat next to me, not his friend at the bar and we talked and laughed for a long time.

We stayed till close and by then I was pretty drunk. (I didn't black out I was still aware of myself). I did fall in the parking lot tho, and not only did he make sure I was ok but he voluntarily held my hand every time I had to pee so I wouldn't fall over. We couldn't get in the truck cus one of the guys was in it foolin around w his gf (it was her truck and she was at the bar the whole night too) it was freezing, so I squeezed Mike tight real quick but he ended up holding me for 2hrs tight keeping me warm. We kissed a few times (no tongue). When we were finally about to leave he climbed in the back of the truck with me and I played in his lap and we cuddled. At that pt I wasn't drunk at all.

My question is...did he do that cus he was cold too, cus he was just being nice, or was there maybe something more?

I've been friends with this guy I worked with for about 2yrs now, but somehow we started hooking up about 3x a month for the past 3months, starting the 4th last night.

Usually we watch TV for a bit, he eventually tickles me and we start making out while he fingers me for a while then we go to the bedroom. I'd leave about 20mins later.

Last night, I brought him a dessert my mom had made that I know he LOVES cus I gave him some when we worked together. We watched TV for a little about an hr, then we began play fighting/wrestling on the couch. Eventually he pulled me in close (as i was already straddling him on the couch) and we made out while still playin then it stopped and we just kissed and he began to finger me.

When we went to the bedroom, he usually jumps right away to taking off my clothes and going down on me. This time he laid down, grabbed me as tight as possible,putting my leg over his side and we kissed side by side until he pulled me up on top of him. We kissed more until he stopped, looked at me, letting me know he wanted to go down on me. (He always does me first). When he finished, he again pulled me against him and kissed me. He kissed my legs too. When we had sex, I started on top, and we held eye contact. He flipped me over, and while he was on top of me, he locked eyes with me in a much softer light, with a slightly warm smile. Then he kissed me passionately. We then switched to doggy style, and he didnt spank me like usual. Instead, he grabbed my a** and then...he turned my head a little to kiss me while we were in that position...hes NEVER done that!

After, we went back and watched tv for a full hour before I left. We hugged tight and he said "have a good night, drive safe" like he always does, but The night was totally different.

Was he just switching things up? he's always been a great kisser, but never pulled me so close the whole time.

Sorry this is so long! Just a tad confused lol