florry

Do you think these woman are garbage

I know I will get trashed for this but I'm hoping someone may be kind.  I'm in a sexless marriage. Long story. Adult kids in 20s. I'm 47.  Hubby 70.  Affair partner 49.  Affair partner and I never had intercourse.   We know what we are doing is wrong. Going on 9 years.  We are business partners. Iv had to have therapy as iv been in a dark place over this. Hes very sweet to me. In 9 years we heavy Petted 3 times.  After each time iv felt very very low. Like a piece of trash. Yesterday was 3rd time. He didn't ring me today but dropped by tonight unexpectedly.   I was so angry with myself.   I feel so used

 I'm in love with him. Deeply.   We talk every day and he seems to really like me. I'm angry because he didn't check in with me after intimacy.   Am I unreasonable.  I know I'm not entitled to anything as this is all wrong. I'm not proud. Do you think he should have called?

I asked my husband if he had emotional connection with her. He said no. That he just enjoyed her company and that she very sexy but that his family is more important .  He said they had no intercourse or oral but did orgasm together and lie together with their top half naked.  He said sex is what he kept for me. He said she had the most amazing breasts.....so this means it's just a weird physical thing.  I just feel inadequate now and he can't get hard with me...what's yr opinion 

My husband was seeing another woman 8 years. They had no sex just some pleasuring. We have 3 adult kids. He wants to keep family together.   I'm taking him back. He is not able keep erection with me.   When I went crazy he said it's just the " chemistry " was good with affair partner and he felt she really wanted him and that they really wanted to sleep together buy she wouldnt coz he married. He assures me he will work on our sex life as he said it just happened with her and from emails he was hard with her all the time. Hes 54.  I'm 50 . Shes 39 with a curvy figure and big breasts.....I'm boyish....my confidence is affected....do u think they loved each other. He said " very fond" of her

Say someone is having an affair.  No sex. But gr8 conversation and some hugging n kissing. They have loads in common with affair partner.  But both married to other ppl for 25 yrs plus. How can you expect them to break up their families and lifes over an affair??  Why do this ?  I mean it would destroy lives that have been built? Is a buddy you are over affectionate with so bad?

I'm married, have 1 adult son. I'm 48. Hubby 63.  Will never leave my husband even though we are living in a celibate relationship,  he doesn't want sex anymore and discussion after discussion no resolution.   Obviously I still want a sex life. I was badly abused at one point in my life so its complex how I feel about sex. During a tumultuous time in my life when I lost both parents and sister a man entered my life and iv fallen head over heels. Hes married. Adult kids.  We have been having an emotional affair for 8 years, some kissing and hugging. Never sex.  We both want to as intense chemistry but I will never go there.  How I feel about him is intense affection......I like him and his family......and I dont want them hurt, hence I keep distance.  To he honest what I'd really like is to be a family friend not an affair partner but he always pushed it this way. Lately he has included family and that's really lovely. I want him to be happy and I love my own partner.  I'm not a bad person guys. Do you think I'm really evil?

Someone I know is having an affair for 8 years with a man who has 3 adult kids in 20s.  They have never had intercourse or any sex.  But have kissed and hugged and get on very well.  She doesnt want to break his marriage. She has a hubbie. They all know each other. Hes doing work for her at moment. He took his adult kids to visit her and they had a fun time.   He says to her if circumstances changed and basically wife died before him he wants to be with my friend.   They have massive massive chemistry but dont have any sex out of respect for respective partners. They have loads in common.  They both 49 married to partners in 60s.  What do you think of him suddenly introducing kids to her

I'm 50. Am I too late to have a baby  met my first boyfriend .  What's the best contraception.....I'm a virgin

Hi I'm in my first relationship.   I'm 50. A virgin. Not menopause.   Regular periods.   Me and my new boyfriend want to try for a baby. It is possible tell me it is?

I'm married to a man 28yrs my senior. I'm 30.  He is loaded with money and my life style is super.   However b4 I met him he thought I was a model and dancer.....I had another life in adult entertainment.   He thinks I mean ballet dancing. I worked all the dark smelly clubs.  And met alot of shifty folk. And slept with married single young old rich poor ugly pretty man or woman..I was very active and he thinks I'm a virgin.  Obviously i need my lifestyles to continue but bit by bit old lovers n sinners are drifting back to me and I cant resist....I had an old boyfriend in our bed last night.....help me

On 50. Never made love. Iv met a guy. We love each other do I admit this

Is having a no penetration sexual affair with no intercourse  oral or hand jobs or French kissing evil.

Just pecks and cuddles

Wud u say these ppl are just as evil as the top heinous crime

We know what these crimes are.  Are ppl having an affair considered same as perpetrators of the awful crimes 

Why are they judged by society so harshly when it only concerns the direct family members involved 

I'm with a married man. I want him. I'm thinking I'm pregnant.  Missed 2 periods.   We together 4 yrs. He says he will leave her now. Will this work

I'm getting treatment from a psychiatrist my parents pay for but he wants to run my life and trys to order me around.  I cud never be friends with him. What can I do

If couple are bored is having a kid a way to stay together and also have a friend in the kid in years to come?

Do people have kids for companionship and as a way to navigate a boring bleak life with one partner if married?  Do they feel it's the only way to have life filled

Anyone enjoying a long term affair without any comeback apart from missing your affair partner.