Starbrite

was an itty bitty teen with perky boobs and a flat sexy stomach..I hated my body..why is it that we as women cannot embrace what nature gave us? I torment myself just wishing I could have the body I once did ..when i see younger women..with these amazing bodies at the beach let's say..I feel ashamed of my shape and how I've let myself go..I just wonder if I'm the only one who feels this way..

flucations...last year I weighed 178, since having my child in 2004, this was the second time I had a big weight gain/loss,, I am very big breasted..however when i loose weight my breast do reduce dramatically in size,,well not this time, I am a size 9/10 and am a 36 dd ddd, these surgeries are not only costly but look painful..im wondering should i just loose an additional 20lbs will this help..im so confused..gravity has taken its toll..and im very self conscience

don't know exactly how to go about it..l'm planning on enrolling in my job's insurance plan to see if that is an option..anyone out there that has gone thru this and had the reduction and it's been a success...I live in South fl area

i am dating a guy and we worked together at a pool co. he was a pool cleaner , im an admin..anyhow 2 mths ago a laptop and sunglasses were taken at one of the properties he cleans, everyone was questioned then and it was i guess under investigation..well about 3 weeks ago he leaves..anyway, i bought a new comp at the time and have proof i told everyone cuz i was excited...all of a sudden yesturday they question coworkers and apparently one said that i received this laptop as a gift..my boss calls me after i leave work and leaves a msg.When i get in to work this morning and call him he says to me to go home bring the laptop and nothing will happen..i got furious and he says come on everyone knows u have a new comp..and the sheriff called and told me to tell u this...he did not ask me he accused me of such crime and i have been a loyal employee since 06..when the det came to talk to me they said they had nothing on me just that i might have received a gift unknowingly it was stolen..i am so humiliated by these accusations, everyone is looking at me like im a thief..i dont think i was treated right by the general mgr of the company although the owner apologized numerous times on behalf of himself and the co. do i have a case??

Ok so I had my hair colored yesturday....i asked for medium reddish brown with caramel highlites.....now i asked for very thin and blended highlites , end result I like it however there is no red in sight its just plain brown with a little light....I really wanted the red hue....now here is my question can i add one of those non amonia colors and not ruin the highlites over all??? I just want to wash it with a little red...what should i do?? mind you i am really pale and i think i look washed out now...

i have had a struggle with weight loss , i cant do atkins,too much meat hard to digest, have to watch it with veggies.... i just want to eat healthy and loose weight without aggravation my condition...i have been eating alot better but no weight loss.

Boyfriend has bipolar and unstable ,I got pregnant and had an abortion during the weekend I had forced a fight between us and disappeared the weekend to do this, ruining his birthday , on monday i found him in bed with another girl and i faked a fall, and now he blames himself for the miscarriage, i feel i deserved to find him with another woman i have been treating him like **** for the longest and i didnt want the baby he would have his violent outbursts and had a drug habit and i felt bringing the baby into this world was worse. How can i move on from this, should i come clean or just leave it as is .

I had an abortion on Saturday, the father was unstable and to some extent abusive our relationship has ended.He told everyone at work and his family that I was pregnant,Im afraid of what he will do if he finds out what i did , so i need to tell him i had a miscarriage, if i go to the hospital and complain of bleeding and cramps could they tell if i had an abortion or could they classify it as a miscarriage?

Yes I made a mistake and had an affair with a coworker,hubby is a great man and yes I was a whore after 7 years of marriage and weeks into the affair my hubby caught us and instead of me begging for forgiveness i told him to leave.. 5months later still with the same lover who has bipolar disorder and is verbally abusive to me and now I'm pregnant, I've been regretting my actions for some time, I know I ****** up and my husband is a saint even after I told him i am pregnant he still tells me he loves me, not that he will return to me but that he will be a friend to me, i left the physcho but i dont know what to do with the fetus, if i keep it, this man will always be in my life and can i live with terminating the pregnancy?? I have a 4 year old with my husband , I am really depressed and I'm having crazy thoughts to harm myself , how could I have ruined my life this way??

seperated 6 months, am pregnant with boyfriends baby, just recently told my husband and since he and i have been talking soo much behind my boyfriends back. We are still in love with eachother but its too late for us now.

I had an affair, got caught 3 wks into it, seperated continued the relationship for 5 mths and got pregnant , my husband still loves me and i realized the huge mistake i made and still love him too. Can he forgive me or should i just let him go..

should i have an abortion behind his back

what should i do?