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Can you please help us find these shoes online?
My GF really wants these shoes very bad, but we can't find them online. Some lady Tweeted this pic of the shoes and we have ask her what shoes they are but have had no luck getting a response.
Please help.
1 AnswerFashion & Accessories5 years agoCan you help me find these shoes online?
My GF really wants these shoes very bad, but we can't find them online. Some lady Tweeted this pic of the shoes and we have ask her what shoes they are but have had no luck getting a response.
Please help.
2 AnswersFashion & Accessories5 years agoHow to deal with this embarrassment involving my Girlfriend & her mom?
My girlfriend and I are both competitive people and we sometimes like to mat wrestle (a lot like high school wrestling style) in my basement with mats all around. I don't think she has ever beat me (we have probably only done this about 10 times and its always just for fun and really light), but she beats me at a lot of other stuff and I can handle that. However yesterday her mom who is 46 years old and small framed and skinny, said that she knew a lot of take down holds and stuff. So she challenged me and said that if I lost to her than I had to kiss her feet.
My GF started laughing and I laughed it off too, but her mom said she was serious and said she wanted to test and see if I was man enough for her daughter. She laughed after that and said lets do it. I said ok and sure enough she was a little monster! She jumped on me, wrapped her legs around my body and put in a front face lock. I went down and submitted to her. She bragged and bragged and my GF laughed at me and her mom said "Now you have to kiss my feet." My pride was hurt and I felt ashamed and I ask them to leave. Well my GF kept laughing and her mom started more smack talk so I raised my voice and told them to leave. They left and I felt like a total fool for yelling a them like that :(
Problem is how do I go back now and make things better? And how do I get by with her mom's teasing?
5 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoHow to deal with this embarrassment?
My girlfriend and I are both competitive people and we sometimes like to mat wrestle (a lot like high school wrestling style) in my basement with mats all around. I don't think she has ever beat me (we have probably only done this about 10 times and its always just for fun and really light), but she beats me at a lot of other stuff and I can handle that. However yesterday her mom who is 46 years old and small framed and skinny, said that she knew a lot of take down holds and stuff. So she challenged me and said that if I lost to her than I had to kiss her feet.
My GF started laughing and I laughed it off too, but her mom said she was serious and said she wanted to test and see if I was man enough for her daughter. She laughed after that and said lets do it. I said ok and sure enough she was a little monster! She jumped on me, wrapped her legs around my body and put in a front face lock. I went down and submitted to her. She bragged and bragged and my GF laughed at me and her mom said "Now you have to kiss my feet." My pride was hurt and I felt ashamed and I ask them to leave. Well my GF kept laughing and her mom started more smack talk so I raised my voice and told them to leave. They left and I felt like a total fool for yelling a them like that :(
Problem is how do I go back now and make things better? And how do I get by with her mom's teasing?
3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoHow can I help my cousin with a big problem?
My cousin who had a rough breakup with his GF a few months ago is still kind of depressed. Well he met some woman online and they have some thing going on where he calls himself her slave and she calls herself his Goddess (or something like that). The only reason I know about this is because he left an email opened up on my computer. I don't know how to confront him about this, but the email made it sound like she orders him to buy her gifts, kiss her socks after he buys them, so that she can blackmail him if he gets out of line.
I don't want to see my cousin get hurt and I need to step in, but I'm afraid if I step in too hard he will get mad at me and be embarrassed. Any advice on how I can help him out without causing him to get mad at me?
Kind of an odd thing which is why I ask for advice on how to help my cousin with this.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years agoAdvice for my friend?
This video on Youtube will explain the full story. He is really down in the dumps and I was hoping I could find some people on here who could tell him something encouraging to help cheer him up. His business went under and by the way it happened really just got him down.
3 AnswersFriends7 years agoYahoo Mail Not Working?
Is there anyone else having troubles getting Yahoo Mail to work? I can't get it to work.
6 AnswersAbuse and Spam8 years agoBeing Bullied my three 18 year old girls? Need some good advice please?
Long story short....I was trying to make peace with my GF and to do that I went to her house to appoligize to her and her sister. Her 18 year old younger sister was at home with 2 of her friends. I told her I was sorry and all 3 began to tease and taunt me. My GF's sister said she would call truce with me if I got on my knees and told her I was sorry. I did that and her 2 friends recorded it and took pictures with their phones. I told them to delete the video and pictures, but my GF's sister got in my face and stood on her toes to get as close to my face as she could and she pushed me, and one of her friends and snuck behind me while she was yelling at me so I tripped over her and went down. The one girl was still recording the video and they were all 3 laughing at me. I left.
Yesterday, I made peace with my GF and told her all about what happened. She told me that she would not let her little sister break us up. Last night my GF tried to get her sister and friends to delete the pictures and videos, but they refused. My GF's sister told my GF that unless I came and met with them 3 tomorrow at my GF's house that they would post the pictures and videos on Facebook. My GF said she took her sister's phone but she don't have anything on her phone, so the pics and videos must be on her friend's phones. My GF thinks I should go over there with her tomorrow after I get off work. If I go what should I do? Should I go? I don't want that stuff on Facebook, so I think I have to go. How should I deal with this? I know her sister is going t try and humiliate me if I go there tomorrow and those three little 18 year old brats will try and make me do something to get them to delete the pics and videos?
What should I do? Should I go along with what they say? Should I not go and let them post that stuff on FB? My GF wants me to go and meet with her sister and friends. So I need advice. Best answer will get 10 points.
Also please be respectful in your comments. I have never had to deal with any type of a female bully and much less 3 of them that are younger than me. I really need some advice because this is really a big problem I'm dealing with.
5 AnswersFriends8 years agoHumiliated by three 18 year old girls? What should I do? Leave my GF?
I went to my GF's house to tell her and her younger sister (who is 18) that I was sorry for what happened the other day. I go in and just her sister and 2 of her friends are in there. That little brat has been trying to break us up and I only came to say sorry for the benefit of my GF. I told her sister I was sorry and that I would like it if me and her could start getting along better. All 3 of those brats started laughing at me so I get ready to leave. My GF's sister tells me to wait and she said if I got down on my knees and told her I was sorry she would forgive me and call a truce. I thought I might as well (because I thought she meant it). I get down on my knees and tell her I'm sorry and then I heard a phone make the picture taking noise.
I get up and see her friends with their phones out and they all 3 started laughing at me. I told them to delete the pictures. They said no and I told them again to delete them. My GF's sister gets in an attitude and says, "What are you going to do if we don't delete them? You going to show everyone here that your stronger than us? You going to hit us?" I said no and then she stood on her toes and got as close to my face as she could and said, "Your a loser! You don't deserve my sister you wimp!" She then pushed me and I did not even notice that one of her friends had moved behind me and I tripped right over her and went down.
All 3 started laughing and my GF's sister pointed out that her other friend was recording it on her phone. I was so embarrassed that I just left. I called my GF and she finally answered and me and her are going to go on a long date tomorrow and I just want to know what you all think I should tell her. I can't handle her sister and I need her to, but how do I tell her that? Or should I sadly give up my GF and just admit defeat to her little sister? I love my GF but I can't take being humiliated by an 18 year old and her friends.
I have ask this before on here but I wanted to see if I could get any more advice before tomorrow. Thanks.
6 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoHumiliated by three 18 year old girls? Should I leave my GF?
I went to my GF's house to tell her and her younger sister (who is 18) that I was sorry for what happened the other day. I go in and just her sister and 2 of her friends are in there. That little brat has been trying to break us up and I only came to say sorry for the benefit of my GF. I told her sister I was sorry and that I would like it if me and her could start getting along better. All 3 of those brats started laughing at me so I get ready to leave. My GF's sister tells me to wait and she said if I got down on my knees and told her I was sorry she would forgive me and call a truce. I thought I might as well (because I thought she meant it). I get down on my knees and tell her I'm sorry and then I heard a phone make the picture taking noise.
I get up and see her friends with their phones out and they all 3 started laughing at me. I told them to delete the pictures. They said no and I told them again to delete them. My GF's sister gets in an attitude and says, "What are you going to do if we don't delete them? You going to show everyone here that your stronger than us? You going to hit us?" I said no and then she stood on her toes and got as close to my face as she could and said, "Your a loser! You don't deserve my sister you wimp!" She then pushed me and I did not even notice that one of her friends had moved behind me and I tripped right over her and went down.
All 3 started laughing and my GF's sister pointed out that her other friend was recording it on her phone. I was so embarrassed that I just left. I called my GF and she finally answered and me and her are going to go on a long date tomorrow and I just want to know what you all think I should tell her. I can't handle her sister and I need her to, but how do I tell her that? Or should I sadly give up my GF and just admit defeat to her little sister? I love my GF but I can't take being humiliated by an 18 year old and her friends.
3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoHumiliated by Three 18 year old girls? Leave my GF or not?
I went to my GF's house to tell her and her younger sister (who is 18) that I was sorry for what happened the other day. I go in and just her sister and 2 of her friends are in there. That little brat has been trying to break us up and I only came to say sorry for the benefit of my GF. I told her sister I was sorry and that I would like it if me and her could start getting along better. All 3 of those brats started laughing at me so I get ready to leave. My GF's sister tells me to wait and she said if I got down on my knees and told her I was sorry she would forgive me and call a truce. I thought I might as well (because I thought she meant it). I get down on my knees and tell her I'm sorry and then I heard a phone make the picture taking noise.
I get up and see her friends with their phones out and they all 3 started laughing at me. I told them to delete the pictures. They said no and I told them again to delete them. My GF's sister gets in an attitude and says, "What are you going to do if we don't delete them? You going to show everyone here that your stronger than us? You going to hit us?" I said no and then she stood on her toes and got as close to my face as she could and said, "Your a loser! You don't deserve my sister you wimp!" She then pushed me and I did not even notice that one of her friends had moved behind me and I tripped right over her and went down.
All 3 started laughing and my GF's sister pointed out that her other friend was recording it on her phone. I was so embarrassed that I just left. I called my GF and she finally answered and me and her are going to go on a long date tomorrow and I just want to know what you all think I should tell her. I can't handle her sister and I need her to, but how do I tell her that? Or should I sadly give up my GF and just admit defeat to her little sister? I love my GF but I can't take being humiliated by an 18 year old and her friends.
If you all want the full back story follow this link but enough details are above so you really don't need the info. thihttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ag.4O...
3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoShould I apologize or should they apologize?
I'll keep a long story short. My GF's little sister (she is 18 years old), hates me! She likes to in ways bully me. She likes to humiliate me, say very hurtful things to me, and gives me no respect. I have talked this over with my GF but she acts like her sister is not a problem.
Yesterday it all fell apart though. I'm on my bench press machine lifting some weights when my GF and her sister arrive. My GF goes to get something and her sister starts putting me down again, so I try to ignore her and just lift some weights. As I'm lifting my GF's sister pulls down her shorts (just had a thong on now) and jumped down as hard as she could and set on my face. I dropped the barbell and I'm very lucky that thing did not crush me and hurt me bad. She jumped off me and pulled her shorts up. I get up and I lose my cool and start yelling at her! I tell her how stupid that was and I just said all kinds of stuff to her. My GF runs in and before anything is said, she yells at me! She tells me to shut up and to leave her sister alone! I try to talk to my GF but she just took her sister and walked away.
I have tried to call her and she won't answer. The problem is my GF don't understand that her little 18 year old brat of a sister wants us to break up. Was I in the wrong for what I did? Should I give in and go tell them I'm sorry? I feel I'm in the right but I really don't want to lose my GF, and I'm nervous that if I tell them I'm sorry that her sister will do something like this again, and I could have been hurt real bad from that barbell. Any helpful advice would be nice because I don't want that 18 year old brat to make me lose the love of my life. Best answer will get 10 points.
3 AnswersFriends8 years agoGirlfriend Help Please! Afraid I might lose her 10 Points Best Answer?
I have been having a lot of problems out of my GF's younger sister (she is 18 years old), and I have told my GF that she wants to break me and her up. My GF just keeps telling me to ignore her sister, but the fact is I can't ignore that little 18 year old brat. She tries to humiliate me, she talks terrible to me, and she loves every second of it. I have been doing my best to avoid her, but my GF loves having me at her house to just hang out, and I love my GF, but her sister is destroying our relationship.
Yesterday, me and my GF thought we would try and get her sister together with my cousin. They were going to meet us at my place, well they came about an hour early, but that was not a problem. We were lifting weights, I was lifting the barbell and my cousin was spotting me. He and my GF go into the house (I figured my GF's sister would too), but her sister stayed in the room with me. I tried talking to her and she just kept pushing my buttons trying to get me mad. Well I lowered the weight some on the barbell so that I would not need a spotter, I start lifting (I like to do 10-15 reps), while I'm doing this my GF's sister pulls her shorts down (just some skimpy panties on) jumped down with force and set right on my face. I dropped the barbell and it hurt my chest some when it hit me (lucky it hit the side of the bench before it hit me or it could have really hurt me bad). She jumped off me, pulled her short up and looked concerned some, but I lost my cool and started yelling at her and telling her how stupid that was and that she could have caused me to get hurt really bad. She just stood there with her hands over her mouth on the other side of the room as I continued to yell at her. My GF and cousin came in, before anything was said, my GF snaps at me!
My GF told me to shut up and leave her sister alone. I looked at her sister and it looked like she had some tears in her eyes. I tried to tell my GF what happened but she told me to shut up! She put her arms around her sister and they walked out. I tried calling my GF and she won't answer.
So my question is am I in the wrong or am I in the right on this? I love my GF but she needs to open her eyes and see that her sister wants up to break up. I feel I had every right to yell at her sister and I honestly think those tears in eyes were fake, because she hates me and this is exactly what she wanted. What should I do? I just don't know what to do. That little brat has ruined everything for me.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoBeing bullied by my GF's Younger Sister. What Should I do?
How do I deal with a female bully?
I am ashamed to say this but I feel as if I'm being bullied by my GF's little sister. Her sister is 18 years old but just continues to do things to me. My GF lives at her mom's house still yet and so does her little sister so it is being real hard to avoid her. She is trying to break me and my GF up, and when I told my GF about my problem she said that I should be able to handle her sister. She told me to just ignore her and that nothing she does will make her stop loving me. Well I don't really know how to deal with her. Her sister wants to humiliate me and break me and my GF up. Dealing with a male bully is easy but I don't know how to get this little brat off my back. Should I give in and take a few orders from her and see if that will make her ease up on me or should I try explain to my GF again that I think she is a serious problem?
I posted this question a while ago and got some good answers but I wanted to see I anyone else might have a better way of dealing with this problem. It is very embarrassing to be being bullied by an 18 year old girl, but I don't know how to deal with this because I don't want to lose my GF.
2 AnswersFamily8 years agoHow do I deal with a female bully?
I am ashamed to say this but I feel as if I'm being bullied by my GF's little sister. Her sister is 18 years old but just continues to do things to me. My GF lives at her mom's house still yet and so does her little sister so it is being real hard to avoid her. She is trying to break me and my GF up, and when I told my GF about my problem she said that I should be able to handle her sister. She told me to just ignore her and that nothing she does will make her stop loving me. Well I don't really know how to deal with her. Her sister wants to humiliate me and break me and my GF up. Dealing with a male bully is easy but I don't know how to get this little brat off my back. Should I give in and take a few orders from her and see if that will make her ease up on me or should I try explain to my GF again that I think she is a serious problem?
Follow this link for the full back story but the above info pretty much sums it all up.
1 AnswerFriends8 years agoShould I accept my girlfriend's little sister's challenge or face some humiliation?
Here is the back story
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;%E2%80%A6
So to put things in a quick summary for those who don't want to click on the link above and understand the full story: My GF's 18 year old younger sister beat me at a basketball game where she rattled me by trash talking me the full game and she wore a distracting outfit. The bet was that if I lost I had to kiss her feet. I kissed her feet because I'm a man of my word. I got back home and she sent me an email with 3 pics of me kissing her feet. She said she wanted to talk to me so instead of putting stress on my GF, I went to see her. That little brat got me mad again and said if I don't agree to one of her terms she would put those pics on Facebook. She then challenged me to a basketball game where some of her friends would be at and my GF, and if she beats me there I would have to kiss her butt. She also stated that she knows if I kiss her butt that my GF would most likely leave me. Last game she rattled me so bad that she beat me 8-20. If I win she gives me the pics and I can delete them.
So how should I handle this? I talked to my GF and she knows I'm going to play her sister at a basketball game tomorrow but she don't know what I have to do if I lose. I love my GF and I don't want her to go through any stress over this so what should I do? Should I accept the basket ball challenge? Should I just tell her sister I'm not doing the game and let her humiliate me on Facebook and also humiliate my GF? This little brat is determined to break me and my GF up and I'm afraid if I'm not careful that little brat will get her way and I'll be heart broken with no GF and no pride. What should I do?
Best answer will get 10 points.
5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoShould I accept my girlfriend's little sister's challenge or face some humiliation?
Here is the back story
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmA4C...
So to put things in a quick summary for those who don't want to click on the link above and understand the full story: My GF's 18 year old younger sister beat me at a basketball game where she rattled me by trash talking me the full game and she wore a distracting outfit. The bet was that if I lost I had to kiss her feet. I kissed her feet because I'm a man of my word. I got back home and she sent me an email with 3 pics of me kissing her feet. She said she wanted to talk to me so instead of putting stress on my GF, I went to see her. That little brat got me mad again and said if I don't agree to one of her terms she would put those pics on Facebook. She then challenged me to a basketball game where some of her friends would be at and my GF, and if she beats me there I would have to kiss her butt. She also stated that she knows if I kiss her butt that my GF would most likely leave me. Last game she rattled me so bad that she beat me 8-20. If I win she gives me the pics and I can delete them.
So how should I handle this? I talked to my GF and she knows I'm going to play her sister at a basketball game tomorrow but she don't know what I have to do if I lose. I love my GF and I don't want her to go through any stress over this so what should I do? Should I accept the basket ball challenge? Should I just tell her sister I'm not doing the game and let her humiliate me on Facebook and also humiliate my GF? This little brat is determined to break me and my GF up and I'm afraid if I'm not careful that little brat will get her way and I'll be heart broken with no GF and no pride. What should I do?
Best answer will get 10 points.
2 AnswersFamily8 years agoIs my Girlfriend's little sister getting the best of me? Best Answer = 10 points?
For the full story of how I got into this mess with my GF's sister click this link but you don't have to read all of that to give me advice:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;%E2%80%A6
Now to make a long story short: My GF's 18 year old younger sister seems to hate me, she trash talks me and she got me to take a bet that if I lost to her in 1 on 1 basketball game that I would have to kiss her feet. The whole game she trash talked me and sadly she was able to toy with me, and defeated me with ease. She claims I can't handle losing to a girl, but I can and losing to her got me mad because of all of her trash talk. Bottom line I went through with the bet and kissed her feet. When I got home later that night I got an email with 3 pictures in it from her. The pictures were of me kissing her feet. She said she wanted to talk to me today.
I wanted to tell my GF but I feel that I should be able to handle this problem without causing her any stress. My GF and her mom went shopping so it was just me and her sister at their house. She was as cheerful as a butterfly still bragging about beating me at basketball and how she humbled me and made me kiss her feet. I told her to shut up and to just delete the pictures of me kissing her feet. She laughed and said she has no plans to do that. I told her that I love her sister and no matter what tricks she tries to pull me and her sister will still be together. I get up ready to leave and she says she is going to post those pictures on Facebook if I don't hear her out. I turn around and tell her I'll listen. She once again laughed and said good! She said she will delete the pictures if I get down on my knees and beg her to delete them and do odd jobs she tells me to do for a month or if I quit coming over to their house.
I told her she is crazy and I won't let her do that to me. She quickly snapped back and said she sure will post those pictures. She said she would give me one more option. She said I'd have to play her in 1 more basketball game in front of 6 of her friends and my GF and if I lose I would have to kiss her butt, and if I win she would delete the pictures. I told her I'd take the basketball bet. She laughed and said something like this, "You are stupid! I beat you 20 to 8 and you took that bet. You know once my sis sees you on your knees kissing my a** she will leave you!." I just left without talking to her.
Now that I'm home I think I fell right into her trap honestly. Did I let her get the best of me tonight? What should I do to get her to leave me and my GF alone? Do you all think there is a way I can get her to call off that basketball game? I just hate the fact that I might be letting that little brat get the best of me.
5 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoNeed help with Girlfriend's younger sister? Advice please?
Hi again everyone! Here is a link to what caused some minor problems with me and my GF. This link is to my other Yahoo question and explains how I got to the problem I'm dealing with now.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;%E2%80%A6
Ok, so I go over to my GF's home and I told her I'm sorry for getting mad at her and I explained to her how what she did to m in public really embarrassed me. She told me she never meant to do that and that she was just having fun because it felt so good to win. So we were fine for all of Friday.
Yesterday she wanted me to come over so I could help her paint an old table that has been in her family for a long time. I get along with her mom very well, but as for her younger sister, I think she hates me. While I'm with my GF painting that table, her sister walks in and just starts trying to push my buttons and get me mad or get my GF mad. She hit a nerve when she said something like this, "Sis I don't know why you want to be with a guy who gets mad when he loses to a girl and you made him look like a B**** in front of everyone at that place." I told her I did not get mad because I lost to a girl, I told I her it embarrassed me for having to kiss her feet in public. I told her that we make fun little bets all the time and that did not make me look like a B****. At this point my GF told her sister to just leave and ask me to finish help her paint. I started painting again and her sister walks up to me while I'm on the ground painting and kicks the brush out of my hand. She starts laughing and my GF told her to get out and told me to just ignore her.
Her sister then said something like this, "If you can take a loss to a girl without getting mad why don't you prove it? Why don't you go into our backyard and play me in a game of 1 on 1 basketball. First person to 20 wins. If you lose why don't you kiss my feet and m sister's feet?" My GF told her to shut up, but I told my GF's sister I would take her up on her challenge if she agreed to if I won that she would clean all of my GF's shoes and wash my car. She very arrogantly said "sure!"
My GF warned me that her sister was good at basketball. Her sister is 18 years old, 5'9 and very athletic (a lot like my GF only taller and younger). I'm in good shape but it had been a while since I played basketball, but I was not too worried. Well my GF's sister comes out wearing little athletic style short shorts and a sleeveless white tee. We started the game and that is when the smack talking began. She talked trash to me that whole game! I hate to admit it but she toyed with me in that game. She was a lot better than I thought she would be. She just kept trash talking me though all through the game. She wanted to get me mad. At the end the score was 8 to 20. She was dancing around calling me a loser and I told her to shut up. She played it up as I can't take a loss to a girl without getting mad. My GF told me I don't have to go through with the bet and kiss her feet, but her sister told me she wants to see if I'm a man of my word. She tells me to go into the living room in 5 minutes to kiss her feet. I felt so embarrassed that I could have cried, I can accept the loss but with all of the smack talk she did it made that loss really hurt. My GF told me I don't have to kiss her sister's feet and she would take care of that. I told her I'd go through with it because if I don't we would never hear the end of it. I go into the family room and her sister is sitting there with her bare feet propped up on a stool. She kept talking smack and said take my loss like a man and kiss her feet. She said really kiss them for 10 seconds. I kissed her feet for around 10 seconds and she was as happy as a butterfly. She said goodnight and left up stairs laughing away. My GF gave me a mint and she just joked it off like nothing ever happened. She made me feel better. I went home a little bit later, and when I got home I checked my email and I had an email from my GF's sister. She had a camera hidden in the room and took a few pictures of me kissing her feet. She sent 3 pictures with the email. She just said "Look what I have :)"
I'm going to talk to her today, but how should I handle this? Do you all think I really do have a problem with accepting a loss to a girl? How can I make my GF's sister calm down and be friends with me? I'm afraid she will try to ruin the relationship I have with my GF. Am I worried for nothing? Thanks for any advice.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years agoGirlfriend's Younger Sister Help Please?
Hi again everyone! Here is a link to what caused some minor problems with me and my GF. This link is to my other Yahoo question and explains how I got to the problem I'm dealing with now.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;%E2%80%A6
Ok, so I go over to my GF's home and I told her I'm sorry for getting mad at her and I explained to her how what she did to m in public really embarrassed me. She told me she never meant to do that and that she was just having fun because it felt so good to win. So we were fine for all of Friday.
Yesterday she wanted me to come over so I could help her paint an old table that has been in her family for a long time. I get along with her mom very well, but as for her younger sister, I think she hates me. While I'm with my GF painting that table, her sister walks in and just starts trying to push my buttons and get me mad or get my GF mad. She hit a nerve when she said something like this, "Sis I don't know why you want to be with a guy who gets mad when he loses to a girl and you made him look like a B**** in front of everyone at that place." I told her I did not get mad because I lost to a girl, I told I her it embarrassed me for having to kiss her feet in public. I told her that we make fun little bets all the time and that did not make me look like a B****. At this point my GF told her sister to just leave and ask me to finish help her paint. I started painting again and her sister walks up to me while I'm on the ground painting and kicks the brush out of my hand. She starts laughing and my GF told her to get out and told me to just ignore her.
Her sister then said something like this, "If you can take a loss to a girl without getting mad why don't you prove it? Why don't you go into our backyard and play me in a game of 1 on 1 basketball. First person to 20 wins. If you lose why don't you kiss my feet and m sister's feet?" My GF told her to shut up, but I told my GF's sister I would take her up on her challenge if she agreed to if I won that she would clean all of my GF's shoes and wash my car. She very arrogantly said "sure!"
My GF warned me that her sister was good at basketball. Her sister is 18 years old, 5'9 and very athletic (a lot like my GF only taller and younger). I'm in good shape but it had been a while since I played basketball, but I was not too worried. Well my GF's sister comes out wearing little athletic style short shorts and a sleeveless white tee. We started the game and that is when the smack talking began. She talked trash to me that whole game! I hate to admit it but she toyed with me in that game. She was a lot better than I thought she would be. She just kept trash talking me though all through the game. She wanted to get me mad. At the end the score was 8 to 20. She was dancing around calling me a loser and I told her to shut up. She played it up as I can't take a loss to a girl without getting mad. My GF told me I don't have to go through with the bet and kiss her feet, but her sister told me she wants to see if I'm a man of my word. She tells me to go into the living room in 5 minutes to kiss her feet. I felt so embarrassed that I could have cried, I can accept the loss but with all of the smack talk she did it made that loss really hurt. My GF told me I don't have to kiss her sister's feet and she would take care of that. I told her I'd go through with it because if I don't we would never hear the end of it. I go into the family room and her sister is sitting there with her bare feet propped up on a stool. She kept talking smack and said take my loss like a man and kiss her feet. She said really kiss them for 10 seconds. I kissed her feet for around 10 seconds and she was as happy as a butterfly. She said goodnight and left up stairs laughing away. My GF gave me a mint and she just joked it off like nothing ever happened. She made me feel better. I went home a little bit later, and when I got home I checked my email and I had an email from my GF's sister. She had a camera hidden in the room and took a few pictures of me kissing her feet. She sent 3 pictures with the email. She just said "Look what I have :)"
I'm going to talk to her today, but how should I handle this? Do you all think I really do have a problem with accepting a loss to a girl? How can I make my GF's sister calm down and be friends with me? I'm afraid she will try to ruin the relationship I have with my GF. Am I worried for nothing? Thanks for any advice.
4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago