Yvonne

How do you settle with 1 child? How do you know that 1 child is enough for you. I am having doubt as to whether I should have another 1. I'm afraid that if I don't, I may regret in the future, as age is catching up and I might not be able to conceive. Also, what if my husband and I are no longer in this world, will my child be lonely because he doesn't have any siblings?

I am flying to Sydney first, and I plan to go to Melb and Gold Coast, but I don't think I can go to 3 places in 8 days. So, should I go to Melb or Gold Coast? How many days should I spend in Sydney? Any advice? Thank you.

I've watched lots of video about natural birth and c-sec, and both of them are scary. But I am pregnant and I need to deliver my baby one way or another. If I opt for natural birth, and if dilation does not work, I have to undergo an emergency c-sec, and I am very scared that I would not be able to handle the pain of contraction and pushing the baby out naturally. If I opt for c-sec, all I need to do is leave everything to the doctor. But the operation videos are really scary, and they are going to cut me up, and now I'm really confused as to which way to go.

Before I got married, I have always wanted to use this name if I were to have a daughter. However, one of my cousin gave birth to a baby girl last year and took the name. Should I change or should I stick to it? If I stick to it, my relatives might say that I copy people's name. ;(

I'm working in a big law firm for 9 months now, and I've only learn Banking litigation and will continue to do the same thing if I'm still here. I intend to open my own firm in future, but I realize that I could never survive with only 1 area of law in my hand. What should I do? Should I switch to a medium firm or a smaller firm? Take note that the salary is higher for a big firm if compare to others. This is really my concern. But I am only 23 so my friends told me not to look at the salary as if money is the only thing for me right now. What do you think? Should I sacrifice my salary in order to learn more things in a medium or small firm or should I just stick at the same place?

Thanks.

I've been doing Banking Litigation for 7 months now. I've been working for this wonderful boss of mine, she teaches me how to become a lawyer.

Then there is another team in the firm, who offers me General Litigation. I've never done any general litigation things, but I want to learn something else other than banking, but I don't know whether I should accept this offer and reject my boss' offer to stay in her team or not.

I don't know what to do. Any idea?

I get my offer letter to do my postgraduate study (master), but I need to do my chambering (working with law firm for few months, in order to get a law license). Everything start on next month. Should I do both or should I choose 1?

The situation is:

1. This is a huge law firm where I'll be working over time everyday.

2. Traveling from that law firm to University takes about 1 hour drive.

3. My parents prefer me to do my master and don't work until I finish my master.

4. But I need to finish my chambering in order to get my lawyer licence which is very important for me. Or else, what is the purpose for me to do my law degree for so many years?

Now I really don't know what to do. My head is going to blow up!

Plz give me some opinion, I really need to make my decision as soon as possible...

When I was young, I always thought that being older will give me more happiness, but as I grow older by each day, I tend to know a lot of stuff. I tend to be sensitive with the surrounding & each and everyday I have something to worry about. Sometimes I think that happiness will be ripped off of me day after day. Do anyone have the same feeling too?

Sometimes I just wish that I could be a kid again, where I will have nothing to be worried about & can be really happy. Why must I wish to grow up so fast?

How to get my happiness back just like before?

I'm so bored! What should I do?

I am waiting for my result to come out, then only I can start my chambering. At the mean time, I have nothing to do. I stay at home, while my other friends at my home town, either studying or working, just me at home doing nothing!

I really don't know how to continue my life anymore... Waiting for the month of July to come, is so difficult!

I try to rest, I try all my best to rest, but what do everyone mean by rest? Rest means sleeping? dreaming? watch tv? online? What should I do? I don't even know the meaning of resting anymore!

Can anyone suggest some great activity for a person who is damn bored? Plz, help!!!

I have never work b4 in my life, all I do is studying until now, I'm already 22. Now that I've graduated, and I get a job, it is kinda happy to get a job, meaning that I can earn my living. I'll start working by next month. But then when I think of working, I feel scared.

What will it be like in the working world?

What should I prepare myself to?

Do I really wanna work?

I'm so scared of my new chapter of life. I don't know how to say... I'm so blur. I don't know what is like in the working world! Am I alone here? Do anyone ever feel scared like I do. I need some advice on how to handle this matter.

With all kinds of unforgettable moments that we had gone through, it is sad to know that my best friend can ignore me in our 7 days trips. At the same time treat someone she hates for 1 year as her best friend in front of me! Calling her name every second every day! She didn't even talk to me. When I ask her 1 question, then only she will answer, then she stop. What's wrong with her?

I'm very disappointed&sad. I wish I never knew. She is someone that I helped the most within the pass years. Send her here and there, police station, interview for a job, hospital, and etc, you name it, it is there.

Just because I don't want to let her sleep at the corner of the room, coz I obviously chosen 1st & already slept, how can she hates me like that? For the whole 7 days trip, she ignored me!

I'm very sad...

What should I do?

People always do not know how to appreciate things they have or people who love them, until there are gone.

Why?

How can we show appreciation?

I post a blog, saying how much I love my boyfriend, that I want to spend our 1000 months together. Which contains of 1000 months' anniversary.

He then replied "Wow, we are having the same dream.. I promise I will always with u on every anniversary. I love you!"

Then I got some not so good comment from my friends, saying that my boyfriend is not so romantic. I got abit of that feeling too.

What should I do? Teach him to be more romantic?

Have you ever think that, if you are given a chance to go back to the past and change the future, will you love to go back and chance those decision that you had make? or you have no regrets on everything that you had done in the past?

Sometimes i really think that "if i can have another chance in life to go back to what i've done, i'll make it different, better, etc". Yet, sometimes i think that "if i go back to the past, i'll still choose the same, and i don't regret it".

Anybody ever think of it?

Why people always talk bad thing about people? Why they never appreciate those good thing that people do to them, and tends to find some bad things to talk about? Is it so hard to talk good stuff about others?

-I had a group of 14 people&I've printed all 4files, it cost me RM82.50. I then ask my treasurer to pay me after showing her the bill,&she end up telling me to claim RM82.50 next semester(next year).

-My group members wanted to photocopy the assignment for own use, although it is a group assignment, but they wanna keep it individually for reference. After counting, (not yet photocopy), it cost around RM200+ all together if I photocopy on my own. Yet, I have to pay for it and claim it next semester.

-I need to claim on next semester because my treasury doesn't wanna collect money by now, as she said it is exam time, she doesn't wanna waste time. Then blaming me that I did not remind her a month earlier, so that she could collect those money, which I had no idea I would have printed so much.

-Should I photocopy for them&pay for them, keep those bill so that I can claim next year, or don't photocopy for them&say treasurer hv no money,so I photocopy for u guys, coz I hv no money too?