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I've always had boyfriends and I like them! I am falling in love with my girlfriend, am I bisexual?

The thing is that the greatest moments I ever had have been with guys, but since a few time ago I started to feel attraction to my best friend. Her thinking way and her feelings are perfect to me. ... but if I see someone walking by the street or by t.v. I don't like women, I like men! ... I don't understand, am I bisexual?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    No body else can tell you if you're bisexual or not. Given your feelings only extend to this one girl it's most likely you're not bisexual, you're simply sonfused about your firendship. However, if you wanted to explore a sexual relationship with another female then your best mate is probably not the best candidate for trying something you might end up hating as you stand to lose a great deal more from this.

  • No - Just confused - You like her, which is very similar to love... Women quite often go through a phase of fancying friends (14 - 25 or so) - especially during the university years when you experiment with everything...

    Damm - why are all the "Nice" girls taken... ;) grin...

  • 2 decades ago

    Yes

  • 2 decades ago

    the same thing has happened to me i am stuck in the same situation,the only way you will know is if you have a 1 night stand with another women,when it comes to sex,you have to ask yourself the question would you go orally with another women,if not then forget about it,as a gay women would want to be pleasured

  • 2 decades ago

    well if you only feel this way about your bestfriend, you are probably not bisexual. u have just grown to love each other, and talk to her it might be mutual. and even if you are, there is nothing wrong in beeing bisexual, so explore ur sexuality and have safe fun!!!

  • 2 decades ago

    Hello

    I think every woman has thoughts about other women, its not that you are bi- sexual you may just be bi -curious, don't be ashamed or frightened by your feelings you may be attracted to your friend for different reasons (ie, she may make you feel good about yourself)

    Take Care

  • Suzita
    Lv 6
    2 decades ago

    Don't worry. The great psychoanalyst Frued proclaimed that we all have the capacity to be bisexual.

    It is whether you act on it that counts.

    And it's a free country.

  • sasha
    Lv 4
    2 decades ago

    you could be bi but maybe its just a crush which lots of straight girls get on other girls.

    i say ditch the men and try girls cos you might find you like it plus no man deserves a woman

  • 2 decades ago

    bi curious perhaps, be sure you don't lose a good friend by reacting to your feelings, but go with your gut instincts if you are meant to be then alls good be careful if she means more to you than just a fling as a friend good luckX

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    No, just confused over a great friendship!

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