If someone takes/borrows/uses etc something without asking?

Question

and they say to you after they have done it "oh i just used your *whatever* hope you don't mind"

Is it wrong to still be annoyed at them even if you would have said yes if they had asked first?

This has been happening to me alot lately and it really annoys me, but then I think "well if I had been asked I would have said yes, so why am I so annoyed?"

Hope I make sense lol

Gabi ng Lagim · Accepted Answer

You have the right to be annoyed even if you would have said yes. The fact that they didn't respect you and use good manners is what is annoying you. Good manners grease the wheel of society. If someone borrows without asking, it's called stealing.

I loove sweets and cute things^^ · Answer

you make sense and No, is not wrong to be annoyed.

just let them know that you don't like. they just have to accept it...

I see a lot of, oh! I had this or took that, hope you don't mind...


I do ask before I take it or have it rather than saying after, oh! I hope you don't mind...

dah! of course people mind....... is just sometimes we are too polite and shocked and for that we lose words and they get away with it...

civilised people would ask before they take something rather than saying after - oh! I hope you don't mind.

Anonymous · Answer

Hi Sam
Taking something with out asking is classed as theft, I suppose it is all right if they bring it back, but if they don't You are well with in your rights to phone the Police and get them arrested that will stop them taking the pi*s out of you and taking you for a mug

Afi · Answer

Yes , it's annoying.
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If someone takes/borrows/uses etc something without asking?

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