what can i do my 14 year old trying to meet up with 17 year old boy?

Question

my 14 year old girl has been bbm'ing a 17 year old boy whom she never met or knows for 2-3 months she dont want me to tell anyone since i found out and now i have found out that they are trying to meet should i say something to her mum cause she promised to stop speaking to him if i didnt tell her mum but she has carried on so should i tell her mum i have found out who the boy is and spoke to him but he not bothered and if i try to talk to my daughter she starts to cry and tells me not to tell her mum and that she has removed him from bbm but then they start bbm each other again and when i ask for her phone she snaps at me i am at my wits end as they never went to the same school so are complete strangers to each other should i let it go or should i say something

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say something
she is underage and you are an adult ( so act like it)
and put your foot down
don't be scared of a child
she knows what she is doing with all the crying and not wanting to show you the phone
and i also believe that she is still taking to him

if he is a complete stranger then lord knows who the so called "17 year old boy" could be
he can be some 60 year old perv who does something horrible to her
this why children need to be obedient to their parents
i always tell people that because im 20 but at 19 ( long story short)
my mom told me i shouldn't go over to this guys house who was liking me i did because i wanted to get to know him he ended up sexually assaulting me and force himself on me and tried to rape me
and i now know..

parents only worry because they care no matter how old you are..
so protect your daughter i don't know her but im scared for her....

whyme? · Answer

since she is under age tell her that he could be charged and prosecuted for luring a minor. you did not say that she was your daughter but described her as your girl. at age 14 the girl's mother has every right to know what she is using her phone for, so drop a hint to her mother to monitor it.

Anonymous · Answer

Confiscate her phone, tell her she can have it back only if she tells her Mum

what can i do my 14 year old trying to meet up with 17 year old boy?

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