Does anyone else feel like this?

I see so many men going around showing off and being proud of themselves for no reason and people have this preconception that because I'm a man I must be like that, but I really don't feel like that at all. I sat down to smoke a roll up the other day and a colleague called me a"typical man". All my friends smoke roll ups and they're women.. are they typical men? I don't think there's a brand of tobacco for people with penises. My point is I have feminine values, for example: I think it's important to talk about feelings with those closest to you and I really can't understand why so many men are scared of that. I wish sometimes I could just be myself without people judging me by my appearance.

Does anyone else feel this way and what's your opinion?

Thanks.