Boyfriend asks for sex with others while I cant see him?

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So in my long distance relationship we get away by having sessions of camera on camera you know what. My partner was one time asking me if it was ok with me if other people could have sex with him, because he just needs to do it to let it out some times... He said he was really trustworthy and I believe him but I tell him no because it is really uncomfortable thinking of him with another person.... At first when he asked me I was outraged and started saying "Am I not enough for you?!" but he really wants this and I just cant handle it, I though about breaking up with him but I cant get around to doing it, he says he loves me and one time when I tried to break it up he started crying very hard and I was afraid he was going to literally kill himself because he has had such a horrible luck in that field of partners. I dont know what to do... Please help me

Update:

I know he looks at other porn and btw, he has ( or otherwise told me ) that he has a testicular problem that causes pain when he dosent ejaculate enough originaly caused by nerve damage to the prostate.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That ain't love. Not in my book.
Where the trust, or life isn't complete without you, or I want you -or none?
This is just lust, and disapointment waiting to unravel,

Kasumi · Answer

Break up with him. He is not worthy because he cannot control his sexual desires. Having sex with others shows that you are not the only one in his heart but is instead any girl that comes across him. You need to learn how to let go and move on. Breaking up can be a lesson to future relationships. Also this is a long distance relationship- they usually don't last very long. Find a more trustworthy man, an individual who won't make you cry or worry. Good luck!

? · Answer

I think you should tell him how you feel, and see if its alright for him to limit the amount of people that he has sex with. If not, then you should follow your heart and break up with him. Don't stay around him if you think you cant trust him or dont want him to be having sex with others.

pk · Answer

Huh.

Your "boyfriend" asked if he could have sex with other people but only masturbate to your pictures.

If that's not demented than I don't know what it.

But ok.

If this is your definition of "boyfriend" then I guess you're going to have a ton of men in your life.

Anonymous · Answer

If ur partner wants sex, then you should be the one giving it to them, not other people. You guys love each other, and that's what sex is for, not for confidence but for each other. This guy really loves you I know it

? · Answer

Break up with him, or ask him if you can **** other guys too

Boyfriend asks for sex with others while I cant see him?

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