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Should I ask the bride?
A friend of mine has invited me to her wedding. It's Hawaiian-themed, with everyone encouraged to dress for a luau. I have an outfit I can wear, but it's black (with red flowers).
I know there are all kinds of opinions on whether or not it's okay to wear black to a wedding. My question is, would it be pushy of me to just up and ask the bride-to-be? I haven't known her very long, and she's been stressed out of her mind with wedding details. I'm also worried she'll feel obliged to tell me it's okay so I don't have to buy a new dress. (I don't particularly *want* to buy a new dress, but I'd manage.)
So... do I ask her? Bite the bullet and go dress shopping? Flip a coin?
1 Answer
- Blundt CakeLv 78 years agoFavourite answer
Is it something you'd wear to a party?
If you feel your outfit would be festive and happy, then feel free to wear it without checking with her.
It's more important not to wear something too sexy, revealing, or garish.
Hard to say without seeing the dress though.