What do you think of a girl who uses sexual innuendos?

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I work in a bar and obviously with a lot of men and between us all, we use a lot of sexual innuendos, just between ourselves and some regulars, its all harmless fun....or so I thought, when recently I was out with friends, who introduced me to a couple of other guys, enjoyed the night with them, did my usual of sexual innuendos, in the hope that everyone would laugh and just relax, only to be told a few days later that one of the fellas asked if I was a ****? im angry and embarassed.....that someone would ask my friend that....and also isn't there enough fakes out there trying to look perfect yet going out and performing sexual activities.....any way.......is it wrong as a young woman that i use sexual innuendos? or should i forget what this young man said?

Charlene Gosling · Accepted Answer

Sounds like typical male double standards to me, fortunately it is just one person saying it so I think you are safe to continue as long as you are having fun with people you know.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah don't feel weird. Guys do that ALL the time, and no one calls them sluts. I despise it when things like that are expected of men, but as soon as a woman says them, they're a whore. Do what you want! Don't listen to that ***-hole

? · Answer

I would find that *** and slap him, he had no right to ask nor assume that whatsoever. You are fine...

What do you think of a girl who uses sexual innuendos?

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