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My boyfriend is being a dick & I'm liking someone else?
So I've been w. my boyfriend for 4 years & he has made me so happy! But lately, he's just beginning to come off as annoying & he's just being a dick all the time. I haven't seen him in like a month because his car is having problems so maybe that has something to do with it (no we don't live together) we are 18 yrs old. And I have been talking to this other guy, started off as a friendship but he just makes me real happy & he's always calling me beautiful while I'm trying to work things out w. my bf but he's just being a dick still! So idk what to do? And I like the other guy as well, but he lives in LA & that's 2 hrs away from where I stay. If this was you, what would you do? Would u keep working things out w. ur bf or go for the guy who lives in LA? /:
3 Answers
- MiaLv 67 years agoFavourite answer
Personally, I would stay loyal to my own boyfriend. I know long distance relationships don't usually work out, but you've been together for four years. Most relationships break after the two year mark, so that's saying something. I know you're annoyed with your bf right now, but all couples have problems and fight sometimes. I think you are craving male attention because your bf isn't here, and while it's fine to befriend other guys, I feel like your relationship with your boyfriend is much more important than a guy you don't know for as long. Yes, you might feel special because he calls you beautiful, but a lot of guys do that and they just want to hook up, plus how do you know things will even last if you decide to go for him. Don't be unfair to your bf, if you still love him and he's still making the effort, be loyal to him.
- 7 years ago
Take a break with your bf. Is he really becoming a jerk or is he in a hard time. Is the guy who live in L.A really worth it. Now you have to answers those questions by yourself.
Good luck though
- 7 years ago
not the guy who lives in LA, that's unrealistic.
tell your boyfriend exactly what is bothering you, and say it to him really clear and with authority. tell him if he doesn't stop, you will move on but don't let go of him that quickly....
