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My heart says yes but my mind says no. What should I go with?

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  • 7 years ago

    Hi Holly. Are they both EXACTLY the same amount of strength, or do you feel slightly more "yes" than "no", or the other way round? Try weighing up all of the other things as well though - like try thinking about the future. Could you stay together for a long time, or if you do stay would fairly soon things have gone beyond repair? If that was to be the case then you might be more hurt than if you finish things now.

    Like the saying goes "there are plenty more fish in the sea", so if you are doubtful now, but also upset/hurt for a bit after finishing the relationship, then I am sure another person will come along.

    Hope you can make the right decision.

    Richard

  • John W
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Trust your gut instinct. The heart will always lie for love, and the mind will always say no to keep from getting hurt but your gut knows what the best thing to do is.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    Heart tends to mess things up. Go with your mind . It will be beneficial for u in the long run

    Source(s): Experience
  • 7 years ago

    Flip a coin because with the info you provided, any answers here are equivalent to a coin toss. I vote, go with your brain. Plenty of fish in the ocean and if your brain is telling you it is wrong then you know better. Love is for people over 40.

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