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Girl I like is dating best friend 10 points best answer?
Okay so this is quite confusing
Basically one of my close friends I've known for 9 years is now dating a girl I really like, she also really likes him but is quite paranoid about his ex that he had previously been chasing for about 6 months, and before I liked this girl I was her agony aunt showing her the negatives that she couldn't see
Anyway meanwhile they've been dating for 2 weeks or so now and they spend so much time together personally I'd be sick of him, and tonnes of other people have said I'm a much better match than he will ever be,
Now the other day she found out I'd like to get out of the friends zone by word of mouth and even after that I'm still her best friend, my friend she's dating now doesn't even want to hear about me, but she's putting me first and not having any of his **** because I'm still her best friend,
Continuing from this I spent the day round hers the other day and we were play fighting as usual as we do, but this time later on in the day she started cuddling me and holding my hand, and she's definately not the type of girl to mess people around she'd hate herself,
I'm seeing her tomorrow, I'm just a bit confused, if anyone's able to make sense of what's happening please tell Me? Also she's still paranoid about his ex a bit,
Cheers guys and gals!!
4 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
just be natural. do u want to take it a step further? if so let her cuddle with you and hold her hand, its ok. in the long run, love is stronger than like. (eventually, all friendships will fade. except for your wife-a best friend for life,) :3 hope that helps and gives you confidence.
- 7 years ago
Okay so first, let her know how you feel. I'm a girl and the guys I've dated in the past never told me how they felt, and I HATED that. So make sure you get that out of the way. Because you guys were cuddling, you obviously have some sort of relationship and she likes you. She wouldn't do that with you if she didn't like you. As for your friend, well you're going to need to rebuild your friendship. It's not good if you guys aren't friends because he will go and do bad things behind your back. I hope this helps and I hope you get out of this sticky situation ASAP.
- Anonymous7 years ago
just get on with it
