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What's the best way to approach this situation?there's a girl in class, who doesn't like socializing with anyone.?

Update:

If you say hi to her, she will ignore you everytime. If you ask her for pens or pencils, she will ignore you. If you sit next to her or near her, she will pull unhappy faces, frown or screw her face up. Also If she's sitting with her support worker, she will not let anyone sit with them or near them, on the same table. If you're on the same table as her and doing work, she will ask you to move or to stop work. If you start conversations with others, she will complain to her support worker.

Update 2:

If you ask her, if she would like to go to the canteen, she will ignore you and pull miserable faces. Also if you ask her support worker and then she asks the girl, again she will either say nothing or say no

Update 3:

I've tried talking to her, she doesn't respond, everytime i sit near her, she either says nothing or pulls miserable faces. I've done the being nice thing, however she told me not to talk to her and not to look at her, ages ago. I don't understand why she doesn't like me, because I've never done anything to offend her. She's not even willing to be civil

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    First you should say hi. See what kind of response you get back. Don't push it or talk too long. Just say your name and ask for hers. Then ask her how long shes been going. Ask her her major maybe. Then say, "I really want to get to know you better, can i get your phone number?" Don't call right away because then she'll think your desperate. Call like 2 days later. And she'll most likely remember you. And you can go from there.

  • 7 years ago

    Be polite, kind, offer to help and be her partner for group work in lessons when she needs someone to work with and cannot avoid being with someone, and otherwise leave her alone. People are perfectly ok alone it is not compulsory to hold someone's hand all the time nor is it weird to be able to be independant and to like your own company.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    be very nice towards her dont force her just encourage her. if you are her friend

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