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Serious question, my boyfriend is a 100% definate closeted gay but has no idea (or he wouldn't have asked me out), what do I do? Please read?

Yeah I know this sounds stupid but seriously. My boyfriend is closeted and shows all the signs of being gay, not just in personality (I have a LOT of gay and lesbian friends and some family so I'm nsomething of a hag haha) but he has only had 1 sexual encounter with a woman before and he freaked out and rejected her but couldn't explain why which I know is a classic sign for lack of a better word. He is obsessed with 'bi shonen' guys which is basically a japanese term for cute, femanine men but at the same time overcompensates for it by watching a lot of hetro porn and looking at hentai to the point where its almost an addiction but most of what he has on his computer and phone is guyxguy. I really don't know what to do because he insists he wants to be with me (he writes poems and quotes song lyrics which is borderline creepy since we have only officially been together for a week)

So is there a way I can tell him or help him? He always seems to be unhappy an out of place. =(

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  • 7 years ago

    Lol side chic, you are.

    Girl where is your sense of pride, in other words, where's your daddy, and was he an absentee. Clearly stupid, your man, is gay, he wants a man and not you, but you pretend to turn a blind eye and stress yourself out for answers on Yahoo, what a crying shame. It's obvious your gay closet friend, is a straight up down low sneak, who is selfish and living a lie. Dum, Dum, it's only been a week, so what about the poems he writes to you, it's probably sincere, only to tell you that he cares for you but not in a sexual loving, relationship way, he's leaving those poems to the actual love at first sight. Move on silly girl, be his friend and nothing more, he's not into you in your kind of way.

  • 7 years ago

    Maybe hes bi

  • 7 years ago

    your the cover up girl

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