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rjhfocus77
Lv 6
rjhfocus77 asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 years ago

what should I do about this girl I really like. I've only known her a couple weeks. I was introduced to her by a couple of Friends.?

Update:

My Friends think She's ideal for me. I've only known her a couple weeks. She's giggly, quite shy. She's also quite sarcastic, which I like in girls. She's got quite level headed, as in confident.

Update 2:

She's become recently single though. She was dumped by her ex a week a go. She's told me they were together for four years.

Update 3:

I've been waiting for years for a girlfriends. I haven't dated anyone for six years. I definitely like/fancy her. I am aware four years is quite a long relationship to come out of. She may want to be single for awhile.

Update 4:

I've only spoken to her on my own a couple times. She's told me she's not bothered about her ex. Sometimes I go out with Friends for a meal and she's been there as well a couple times. Sometimes she just looks at me, sometimes when i separate myself and go with my other Friends. She will come over, just to be near me. Also when I talk to her, she will laugh a lot.

Update 5:

When I am not with her, I will laugh at the things she says and does. I started having feelings for her, when my friends told me I was going to be meeting someone nice.

Update 6:

I don't know If I am falling for her, however I do have a very big crush on her. That's been caused because We've been to the Arcades a few times and when I loose, she's laughs at me and I like it.

Update 7:

Lastly I've been thinking about relationships and dating ever since my Friends said I was going to meet someone nice. The only thing that bothers me is the age difference She's 22 and I am 36 and her ex was 20. She may only like boys her age in that way

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    "Hey, Susie. I''m glad we were introduced by Bill & Tammy at that party. I'd like to take you out for a fun time of bowling & burgers Sunday at 4pm so we can laugh and get to know more about each other. Can you make it?"

    You're pushing it a bit because the weekend is coming up and you don't want to rush her with short notice.

    It would actually be better if you ask her on Monday how her weekend was. Then ask her out for next Saturday.

    She should accept because you offered a fun date with an exact day & time. That shows you made an effort for her. BTW, try to avoid her before the date. You never want to risk saying anything that would give her an excuse to cancel. Lock down the details and say "Great! I'll see you then." If you happen to see her before the date, be polite, but keep it short.

  • AuntKatie
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Continue to talk to her and try to get to know her better. Ask her to go for coffee with you and see how that goes.

  • ?
    6 years ago

    Go and talk to her!!

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