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Making small talk with girls in a club?
I find it relatively hard talking to girls and making small talk in a club, I guess part of it is finding common ground but it's easier said than done and I struggle to put on a conversational front
My main question after I know their name that springs to mind is what do you do for work or whatever but you're out drinking. The last thing you are gunna want to be talking about is work?! So where do I go?
It's all well and good dancing with a girl on the dance floor but getting off and out to the smokers and not being able to string a conversation together.
Any tips are appreciated
4 Answers
- Anonymous4 years ago
If it's small talk you must be talking about your d ick. Nice going chode.
- ez2tock2Lv 74 years ago
Have you ever played a New Video game or driven a car? Were you good right off the bat or did it take you PRACTICE??
Guess what Girls and Conversations take.
Anything and Everything you want to Change or Improve about
yourself will require PRACTICE.
There are many many things school taught you that you (most people)
will NEVER use in real Life. You probably realize this by now.
The solution to your problem/dilemma is simple.
Depending on your personality, it may NOT be EASY, but it's still Simple.
BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!!
BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE
both REQUIRE PRACTICE.
PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.
(High School / College / New Town / New Job)
Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or
develop insecurities in themselves.
This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention.
The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE,
is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company.
Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.
USE SMILES (to make them relax),
USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),
USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves
when they are around you)
Wouldn't you want to be around someone
that made you feel good about yourself?
What someone else Feels, Thinks or Wants IS NEVER your concern.
If YOU like someone, YOUR HEART is what matters.
Your ONLY job/goal is to get by her side. In her company.
Once there, make her Smile, Laugh and Feel good about herself
with Compliments.
Wouldn’t you like being around someone that did that for you??
This is how you win over people. Be Likable and Be Fun.
Make this your personality and people will look for/want to be around you.
All this may sound scary to you,
but aren't you already scared anyway…
And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are)
CHANGE will Always be Uncomfortable…
until it becomes the way you do things.
Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better.
DO NOT be afraid to Practice.
Practice is just taking BABY STEPS, until it becomes Who You Are.
Anyone who Rejects you is just PRACTICE.
Anyone who Engages you is PROGRESS.
