How to handle this?

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If you've recently started texting a guy and you want to know him first as a friend but also make him feel attracted..if he starts talking about his emotional trauma like "I've had too many past traumas😂 can't trust easily" ...how should you respond
Keep it light and divert the convo or ask him about the "past traumas"?

? · Answer

Goodluck straighten things up, if you need any help I'm right here

Just Wondering0001 · Answer

Hi. That means he's been a real sucker in the past, & he's NOT going to let You in ... as a Friend, or a lover.

So Your next move is to bang him, take lots of incriminating nudes, & own his a** with them.

He's a sucker & always will be, You'll never get a partner from him, always a needy & emotionally overbearing leech attached & not allowing You to excel.

Bwsidws, the bang's all he's looking for, but at least the nudes keep things on YOUR terms afterwards.

G'Luck!!!

? · Answer

You should say "I hope you straighten out your past traumas so you can have a happy life. Good Luck!

Texperson · Answer

That could be his way of diverting you from thinking he's looking for a new gf.  Its not something most guys throw out there if they are trying to attract a girl.  So if you are really ok just being friends you can just say you understand.  And then keep things casual.  If you really want to date him, it may be too much trouble with someone who starts out complaining.

Ashley · Answer

I would keep it light. Otherwise he might completely offload and tell you everything and that can be too much too soon and can ruin the friendship. He also might just keep you as a friend he can off load to.

Leto · Answer

If you want to be his friend you need to show interest and concern about his past.  You can always change the subject if he's unwilling to talk about it.  Listening is key.  Good luck!

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