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How to tell someone i’m not attracted to them? ?
I have been friends with this guy over the internet for over a year now but we’ve always just been friends but i know he’s always liked me. We have never met until today. We finally met & hungout. I frankly think he is the perfect, sweetest guy but SADLY I am not attracted to him ): WHICH SUCKS. i wish i was attracted to him. but i am not. i feel horrible. i wanted this to turn into something more but i just need to tell him it’s not going to workout. I don’t wanna waste his time. but how do i say this nicely? or should i just lie & come up with another reason? I DONT WANT TO BE MEAN
3 Answers
- Blue SkyLv 71 year ago
If that's how you feel, then its important to tell him as soon as possible, so you won't be wasting any more of his time or yours. So just be straight forward with him, but let him down nicely.
- loveableLv 61 year ago
Just tell him the truth. Whatever you want to say will be it. Don't too much.
Sometimes we plan to say yes, but the person said something that cause us to say a vehement no.
Sometimes we don't know what is the answer, until you meet in the situation where all your emotions are sure when you are facing the person, that sometimes causes us to say no.
Don't have to think too hard, because what will come will come.
