I’m pregnant and my boyfriend keeps smoking in our home?

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First and foremost I have nothing against marijuana or anyone who does it. I’ve done it twice out of my entire life but stopped because I don’t see the reason why other’s do it. I’m currently expecting and the smell of my boyfriend’s marijuana REALLY makes me feel weak and nauseous. I talked to him about it and asked if he can at least smoke outside but won’t listen. He’ll smoke in our bedroom with the window open but I can still smell it and it makes me throw up every single time. No joke. The smell is now starting to stick on my clothes. Right now I��m suffering from placenta previa & have an 50% of an miscarriage. I know smoke can play a part as well.. advice please?

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please tell him to stop and go outside to smoke maybe because that is probably not very good for babies

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You realize now that you got knocked up by a loser, dump him, and try to salvage what is left of your life...I am not kidding.

Anonymous · Answer

Just make sure he doesn't smoke around you when you go into labor or your baby will be born high.

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Wrong, the scent of marijuana will not cause you to lose a baby.

The mere fact that he does not respect you is a huge red flay that makes it very clear that he just does not care enough about you and the baby.

If you get out of denial and open your eyes, you will be able to realize he really is a crappy boyfriend.

I'd wait till he lights up, then throw a bucket of water on his lit joint /pipe.

He is dispicable , that self absorbed bastard!

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I can't force your boyfriend to stop smoking weed around you, and if he continues while he knows it makes you sick, then he doesn't have much respect for you at all.

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Smoking is awesome, kids suck. Stop being a drag.

Ashley · Answer

And once you have your baby, you now need to worry about if someone will call cps on you for smelling weed in your home while a baby is present. You need to tell your boyfriend the importance  of taking that crap else where. If he can’t respect that, is it really worth being with him?

CrustyCurmudgeon · Answer

Barf on him. If he leaves because of it, it's a blessing.

Pearl L · Answer

maybe you shouldnt be with him then

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He needs to stop being selfish and put you and your babies health first. My partner smokes but it has always been outside because we have little ones. So does he plan on smoking once the baby comes? You may have to give him an ultimatum either he goes outside or you leave. If he still won't listen then don't expect much from him even when the baby is here. Good luck.

I’m pregnant and my boyfriend keeps smoking in our home?

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