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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 7 days ago

How can I stop being used by guys?

I had a one night stand with a guy last year and he ignored me after we had returned to our respective cities

Updated 7 days ago:

I have never dated a guy for more than one month

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  • Janet
    Lv 7
    7 days ago

    You have to respect yourself enough that you date the guy for a while before you give him what HE wants.

    He wants sex. You want bonding and commitment.

    A guy who IS looking for a relationship and thinks you MIGHT be the one .. is willing to wait 2 to 3 months without sex.

    But the more insecure we are, the quicker we have sex, hoping this will snare the guy.  Doesn't work that way.

    Understand that once the honeymoon phase dies out, we will never be happier in a relationship than we were happy without one. And the more insecure we are on our own, the more miserable we will be in a long-term relationship.

    We have to become whole first, if we want to attract lasting love.

  • Anonymous
    7 days ago

    Cause you're a ****

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