KatLovesShayne

Ok so first of all, please don't give any stupid or hurtful answers....

I met this guy in December through a club in my college and I was instantly attracted to him. The next time i saw him was late March, on a weekend away with that club. We ended up kissing that weekend and fooling around a bit. When the weekend was over, he pulled me aside to talk to me and he told me that he wasn't looking for anything serious. I was ok with that because at the time neither was I. He gave me his number and we agreed to keep seeing each other.

Ever since late March, we've texted every day without fail and we see each other two or three times a week. The more I got to know him, the more my feelings grew for him, and now I have the problem where I've already kind of fallen for him. I can't tell him how I feel properly because I know he'll get scared off and I've already broached the whole subject of relationships and he's told me he just doesn't want a relationship.

He told me he has feelings for me and he's never felt so comfortable around a girl before. He always talks about how he is the luckiest guy in the world to have me around and how he loves spending time with me but he tells me i'm foolish to wait around for something that may never happen. He says he doesn't want a relationship because he is so busy (he has three jobs and works practically every day) and he doesn't want to feel like he "has" to come in to see me, whereas now he can come in to see me if and when he pleases without feeling pressured. He told me that it's not the commitment of being with one girl that bothers him because he said that sleeping around doesn't bother him in the slightest and he's happy just seeing me, and when we do hang out, he is the one less likely to start anything sexual. He told me that sex really doesn't bother him, he just likes being with me and the sex is a bonus.

We act like a normal couple around others ie holding hands and kissing and what not....but to be honest, it may only be just over two months since we started seeing each other but i'm completely and utterly in love with him, its not just a factor of lust, everything about him makes me feel like the happiest girl in the world...

I don't understand why he doesn't want a relationship if we see each other a lot, talk every day and if the commitment to one girl doesn't bother him...He's told me that some day he might want a relationship, it could be today, tomorrow, next week, next month or next year, but he just doesn't want one right now...He always tells me how beautiful I am and how happy he is... I've been told by friends to walk away now before I get hurt but I can't walk away from something I want so badly. I have no interest in being with other guys, I only want to be with him. Every time I try to say something, we end up back in the same circle of not wanting a realtionship and I just get upset then.....

Does anyone have any advice on what I should do?? I really do love this guy...

No flames or nasty comments please...

Thanks guys and sorry it's so long :)

I hate even asking this question but i'm sort of worried that there's something wrong with me...

I'm nineteen next month and i'm lucky if I'm a 32A bra size. I have never changed in bra size and I'm just not growing. Both my mother and my sister have quite small breasts too. I'm on the pill but it hasn't changed the size in the slightest.

I'm so self conscious about it and feel so ugly. I feel like everyone is staring at me because of it. I'm also afraid to get naked in front of guys in case they laugh or do a runner :(

Please can anyone tell me if my size is normal or if there is anything i can do other than surgery...Girls only please and no nasty comments..

I'm about 5 foot 4 i'd say and I think i'm about seven and a half stone...

hey, this seems like a really stupid question but i'm on the contraceptive pill, i take my last one for this month tomorrow evening, so i'll get my period on Saturday..

I'm in Ireland and it's Paddy's day Saturday and I have a party to go to. I don't want to continue a full pack because it will completely mess up the dates i'm due, but I was wondering if I took two extra pills (one Wednesday and one Thursday) would it delay my period by two days? Or would that work at all?

Preferably doctors or people that know what they're talking about to answer please :)

Thanks guys :)

Ok so I've seen this guy around college quite a few times and thought he was really cute. The other day my friend got me his number...So i started off texting him with no flirting just being nice and friendly and what not...Yesterday he told me he'd noticed me way before I got his number and later on in the day asked if i wanted to meet up tomorrow to chat and hang out...so i suggested we go to the cinema....today he was messing around with me and told me to keep my hands to myself tomorrow at the cinema and I text back saying that I thought it was only a friendly cinema trip so he wouldn't need to tell me that...and he said yeahh that's all it is with a winking face...Do i take it as a friendly cinema trip or a possible date cos i'm a bit confused...

Also, I'm really nervous because I'm really shy around guys and I don't want it to be awkward and I don't want to come across as being shy, quiet or even worse, boring... Has anyone any advice or conversation topics?

I know i'm probably over thinking everything but I want to make a good impression because I've liked this guy for a while..

Thank you :)

Ok so I've seen this guy around college quite a few times and thought he was really cute. The other day my friend got me his number...So i started off texting him with no flirting just being nice and friendly and what not...Yesterday he told me he'd noticed me way before I got his number and later on in the day asked if i wanted to meet up tomorrow to chat and hang out...so i suggested we go to the cinema....today he was messing around with me and told me to keep my hands to myself tomorrow at the cinema and I text back saying that I thought it was only a friendly cinema trip so he wouldn't need to tell me that...and he said yeahh that's all it is with a winking face...Do i take it as a friendly cinema trip or a possible date cos i'm a bit confused...

Also, I'm really nervous because I'm really shy around guys and I don't want it to be awkward and I don't want to come across as being shy, quiet or even worse, boring... Has anyone any advice or conversation topics?

I know i'm probably over thinking everything but I want to make a good impression because I've liked this guy for a while..

Thank you :)

I have an assignment due for sociology in february. I have chosen to do a presentation on why there is discrimination against gays and lesbians. I'm looking for theorists on discrimination relating to gays and lesbians if possible. I can't seem to find anything online so any help s greatly appreciated...Thank you :)

I bought a secondhand ipod nano online and it was perfect but when i got it the pre-installed playlists were missing eg top 25 most played and recently added etc....

I know how to create a smart playlist on itunes itself but i can't figure out how to put the playlist on the ipod itself. I've tried simply dragging and dropping a new smart playlist but it doesn't show up on the ipod.

Does anyone know how to put the pre-installed playlists back on the ipod??

thanks :)

over the last few months, maybe a year, i have been getting extremely bad lower stomach pains. These pains are similar to period pain but a lot worse and they occur regularly through out the month. Recently they have become a lot more painful and are aggravated by any sexual activity. They became so bad recently that i was physically sick and was doubled over in two unable to move.

I have a doctors appointment tomorrow anyway but im just wondering if anyone might know what it is, i googled it and found something called "endometriosis" which does sound quite like it but as i said, if anyone has any thoughts to what it might be please let me know ... thanks :)

ps im on the pill, there is no chance im pregnant, and i have only had one sexual partner as had my boyfriend (ie each other) if that helps?

ok so i ordered an item off ebay this day last month and i was hoping you could help me. I started a dispute with this as there was terrible feedback and i still haven't received it. They gave me the tracking number which is RR878101613CN and the company is china post.cn 中国邮政. Can someone please tell me where my item is or give me any information at all cos i really don't know what i'm doing lol.

Thanks :)

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does anyone know a song that talks about being in a relationship with someone but also liking someone else?? i know that's weird lol but if anyone knows anything like it i'd be really appreciative :D thanks guys :)

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hey...am well i've been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months now and i really love him but recently, for the past month or so its just been non stop fighting between us and i've no idea why...it's making me miserable but i do'nt really want to dump him cos i love him...what should i do??

another thing is that i really really don't like his friends. I know that's my own problem but they don't treat him as a friend and he doesn't really see that. As well as this I'm being put 2nd all of the time now. I know all i'm doing is moaning (lol) but could someone give me advice please

nice comments only please! haters stay away! :)

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hey guys!! was just wondering if anyone knew where to download death note 1 and 2 and L change the world in japanese with english subtitles? (for free lol)

I've tried limewire and frostwire and it isn't there and i'm not particularly fond of pirate bay..anyone know anywhere else please??!! :D

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just a random question lol

my favourite is jasper hale <3

my friends favourite is jacob black <3

but they're all gorgeous lol so in your opinion who's the best out of all of them??

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i've played loads of nds games and am looking for something new...has anyone any good ideas of something i can play?? all suggestions welcome ^^

thanks ^^

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i have a nokia 5310 since january and dont have the receipt (just to let you know lol) and today at about three i was texting (like usual lol) and my phone just switched itself off...the battery is grand and when i switch it back on it asks me for my pin which i enter right, im guessing it resets itself cos it asks me to set the date and time but when it gets to the date and time screen it freezes and switches itself off....anyone with the same problem or knows what to do...any advice at all?? x x x

am well this is embarrassing but oh well.... i've been going out with my boyfriend for six months and i haven't told my parents... they're really strict but now my boyfriend thinks im ashamed of him and i feel bad... i don't really want to tell them because as i said they're really strict but i don't want him to think im ashamed of him either.... any advice? x x x

does anyone know any good theory of a deadman songs? the only one i know at the moment is called not meant to be......

also open to similar band/similar song suggestions ...thanks :D

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ok hey again....am.. well I'm listening to music alot more recently and my favourite artists are Shayne Ward, Westlife, Taylor Swift, Jordan Pruitt and Tata Young.... Can anyone suggest music thats alot like Taylor Swift Jordan Pruitt Or Tata Young? I've done google searches but they aren't very helpful to be honest lol .....

Thanks :D

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ok i fixed my last problem but when i try to load a save file on my r4ds then this comes up "do you want to backup this SAVE? the old backup will be rewritten!" ......i cant open my save files and im going loopy lol....please help :(

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am...well...my nana is really unwell in hospital at the moment and they don't think she will last much longer...it's killing me 'cos im so close to her and i dont know what to do it's breaking my heart...i was told to see a councellor but there's no way i'm doing that...i just want to be happy (i'm not emo just a bit unhappy!!) lol.....any advice??

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