Whats good advice to give to my best friend?

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My best friend just got dumped by her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is one year older than her she's 15 and he's 16. Yesterday she told me on the phone about him dumping her. She told me he cheated on her with another girl and slept with her. I was wowed and told her if she knew he cheater on her why was she still with him. She told me she was really attatched to him. Then I was just like wow. and then she told me everything starting going wrong right after she had sex with him. and i told her that, that happens a lot. She told me she was worried because he didnt use a condomn but to make him happy she went and did it with him anyways. I offered to go with her to a clinic but she's still sad about him. What else could i tell her to make her happy? She was with him for about 6 weeks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Being sad about him is not a reason to avoid going to the clinic.
Do it as soon as is possible, and buy her a packet of condoms for the next time she's with a bloke.

hanhan · Answer

Tell he she deserves a lot better than that scum bag. If he cheated on her, he does not care enough about her for her to stay with him. Your friend should also not let some guy talk her into having sex without a condom. There's a chance she could become pregnant and if that guy cheated on her, I doubt he would stay with her and support the baby. Just be there for her and pressure her into breaking up with him. No girl deserves to be treated like that. I'm only sixteen, so I know what boys are like at that age. They're immature. If they only have been dating for six weeks, boy aren't serious at that point. Which is why it is really smart to wait to have sex. I luckily have met a nice guy who does loves me. We've been dating for a year and we are just starting to talk about sex. She needs a healthier relationship. Take her out and have her flirt with some boys. She will be able to get over that jerk if she just tries.

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My best friend just got dumped by her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is one year older than her she&#39;s 15 and he&#39;s 16. Yesterday she told me on the phone about him dumping her. She told me he cheated on her with another girl and slept with her. I was wowed and told her if she knew he cheater on...

Sirena · Answer

If she loves herself and cares about her well being that she will get herself tested and that you have her back for anything. And that there are going to be times that  you fall in love and that one you love breaks your heart but you also have to move on and get over it. Yes it's not going to be easy nobody said  it was going to be but that's the way of life.

Whats good advice to give to my best friend?

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