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Why would a "player" pretend to care? (now I mean)?

If a guy whom only wanted a fling with you/casual thing, is telling you his problems and that he understands how you feel, and suggests you see a doctor because he thinks you're depressed, and he says he has seen a doctor recently due to his depression,. do you think that's weird that he would talk about these kind of things to a girl he wasn't interested in becoming serious with?

I told him I didn't think we should hang out, and we ddint talk for a while, till we had shifts at work again, and when we did he acted all over friendly/helpful towards me and would try and talk to me and ask me how I am, I don't get why he should care if hes into casual sex... I mean we havent hung out as friends in months we see each other at work and he often asks me how I am, compliments tries to touch me on my back/shoulder/ back of my neck. Or randomly starts stupid arguments/tries to contradict me.

Why is he even bothering now?

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    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    He probably feels bad or doesn't want things to be too awkward. Just because he's a player doesn't mean he doesn't care about you as a person or maybe even a friend.

  • 1 decade ago

    just because he is into casual sex he realizes most girls arent so he is trying a new approach onyou

    the second option is that he realizes causual sex isnt enough andn he wants a serious relationsip

    best of wishes :)

  • 1 decade ago

    He isin't getting any action anywhere else that's why. If u already know how he is then why would you entertain it?

    Source(s): My own sense.
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