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Can a girl truly love again for the sake of a society?

Love marriages are favoured in the same caste and Financial background, compared to inter caste or inter religion. This is more acute in the rural areas than urban. Couples who dare cross the social conventions have to cope with a lot of social pressure within their families and outside. Back to my original question mainly focusing on girls, below is a short summary:

A girl falls in love with a person truly madly deeply and they breakup only because their parents disagree due to the fact that the guy belongs to a different caste or a religion. Then a girl has an arranged marriage, can she truly love the guy she gets married to and completely forget her first love?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    love is never for the sake of society sometimes ,our parents take a decision for our good future n this can really be meaningful in future life . if a girl gets marriage cz of her parents then one thing is true , that a girl is of good heart n she kept her parents above herself, coming to your ques, ofcorse she can fall in love again. think when you bring a pet home, if he love you then you as well start loving the pet in less time then why not human beings. n by the way in love there is no trade off , i cannot bet that that she will forget her first love if it was true but dosent mean she would not love her husband with honesty and loyalty. n sometimes specially during tine ages we think we are in love but it comes out be to infatuation and that surely fades away.

  • 1 decade ago

    Everything is possible in real life. We don't always get what we want. We either fight until the end , or we simply try to cope with what we have.

    It's hard to fall in love with someone else especially when it's an arranged marriage, but it happens.

    A woman has that strange ability to contain her pain and live for the sake of other (especially her children)

    it's sad , but it happens, not all people are fortunate.

    But I'm sure that a girl never ever forgets her first and true love.

    Source(s): life
  • 1 decade ago

    A girl cannot completely forget her first Love,but it fades away with the time as she enters a new Life and spend with her husband,who love and care her. She too falls in love with him,cares about him truly,There must be things in inter caste that could not work for family. The girl adjust well according to family traditions and terms,prepare for a new Life and sure try her best bring happiness for herself and her husband and new relations..Love is something that just happens,you don't tend to think anything or about anyone at first time! but later when you realize things that cant work and you have to move on. So a girl makes it best of her to adjust in situation and tries to make future Life a worthwhile even after heartbreak but gets mend with the time as time heals everything and gives you better future that you deserve.

  • 1 decade ago

    We don't forget anything that happen in our life, ever. We just adjust with situations. The girl can love the guy she marry but that guy can't ask her to love him same. That is not possible. Every time when we love is in different way. Any love is special and particular. So if you are in this situation i can tell you that you must work hard to make that girl to love you and she will do it in time. But never ask more then what she will be able to give you. If i would had been in your case i would had just find a person to love and to love me. Is more easy and honest.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well as far as your story is concerned not at all but in India girls make them self so hard and live there life. I have encountered many of such incidents and found that the girl scarifies all her wishes for the sake of her family and carry her new life. But sometime the case worsens if her husband knows after the marriage etc.

    If the hubby knows all about her past and finds nothing wrong then they can spend the life.

  • 1 decade ago

    Bro Love for boys is different and girls is different. Men cant forget their first love even after their marriage, but when children comes up they will forget about their first love. Looking at the children they will enlighten themselves and not spoil their present. It is not the case for women, after she gets married, she will hardly remember for 1 month, then she will have responsibilities like cleaning home, vessels, cooking, washing clothes, serving in laws, her world will not permit her to think of her ex...she can forget in a month or two....then after she gives birth to one or two she will completely forget the memories and erases her memories..

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, she CAN truly love the guy she gets married to, but CAN'T completely forget her first love.

  • 1 decade ago

    What Ritchie said

  • 1 decade ago

    could be....for sure this doesnt apply to guys....but girls are sensitive and like to fool themselves!

  • 1 decade ago

    women can adjust to any situation .............

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