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Would you feel jealous too?

So theres a girl you hooked up with a couple of times, you havent been able to hang recently as youre busy due to your studies. But you get on well with her and seem to have a lot in common and she really likes you.

Would you feel jealous to find out she found your friend really really hot ? (not that she says it infront of you but you heard through her friend)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Do you only see her as a friend? You don't need to feel jealous. It only lowers your self-esteem. Look yourself in the mirror and pick out what you like about yourself. That is one of the first ways to feel secure. Many women and even guys feel insecure because of the messages the media is portraying on what is beautiful..'what is in' ...'it color' ... 'how to look years younger' ...etc. I have insecurities and I realized those messages are damaging me. Most people in the beauty industry 'create & pick out problems to present to consumers a solution. The point I'm trying to make is your character is what matters the most in the end. Someone could look hot but they may get quick tempers (the type of person you do not want to hang around). Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Be who you are and don't change just because the girl you hooked up with find your friend really really hot. You never know...your friend may never said your friend was really really hot. If I was you I would ask questions because sometimes some friends lie just to make you feel bad. Everything will be alright. Talk with her just to be certain it is true and let her know how much it bothered you. If she really cared she would take what you said under consideration. Hope I helped.

    God bless you and yours.

  • 1 decade ago

    I like this question because of the multiple levels of complexity...it's like Inception. Here goes.

    1. You haven't heard it from her so as of right now, it's hearsay. This puts you in a lose-lose situation. You confront her and she can just deny. You ignore it and....nothing. That's right.

    Here is the situation, you're relying on the words of a third party to determine your emotions toward someone who trusts you enough to "hook up" with.

    If it still bothers you, you can confront her but she'll probably question your trust and your confidence. The only time it's safe to talk about it is when you actually hear her say something.

    You can try asking her in joking what she thinks, but at the end of the day, don't let these little things bother you.

    So, moral of the story. Be confident in yourself and don't let 3rd parties alter your thinking.

    Source(s): Love/Relationship Pro
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If I ain't dating her I don't care. Maybe do the same, said that you find her friend hella hot, see how she reacts.

  • edie
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    stop believing everything you hear some body else say, that kind of gossip can run you crazy, especially if it came from a so-call friend.

  • 1 decade ago

    yea. it would seriously piss me off to be honest

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