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Was I too fast to judge this guy?

I slept with this guy over a week ago and didn't hear from him, was I right to remove all forms of contact?

I haven't heard from this guy in over a week since I slept with him, however I haven't made any attempts to contact him either.

I met him in January, but I didn't hang out with him properly till last week, when we hooked up, the next day he was nice and all, hugged me all day walked me to the bus stop, and said to bring some dvds over for next time. know this wasn't heading for a relationship I dint even have time, but it would be nice to keep him as a friend even.

He was on skype sometimes so I guess he wasnt totally avoiding me, However I removed him from contacts and when I was thinking of re-adding him it asks me to send a request (i didnt) so I guess he removed me after he realised? I had also removed him from my fb but not blocked,

maybe I was too fast too judge him? now I feel bad incase he was decent.w

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  • Andy
    Lv 7
    9 years ago
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    Judge him? What right did you have to judge if you didn't make any effort to contact him?

    You're far worse because you didn't just not contact him, but removed all contact. He's the one entitled to judge you.

  • 9 years ago

    I know if a girl removed me from her facebook id feel like she doesnt like me. And i would leave her alone because i thought thats what she would want. If you even wanna talk to him again your going to have to contact him because in my mind you sent a clear message to him that you wanted nothing to do with him.

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