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Did I judge this guy too soon?
Was I too fast to judge this guy?
I slept with this guy over a week ago and didn't hear from him, was I right to remove all forms of contact?
I haven't heard from this guy in over a week since I slept with him, however I haven't made any attempts to contact him either.
I met him in January, but I didn't hang out with him properly till last week, when we hooked up, the next day he was nice and all, hugged me all day walked me to the bus stop, and said to bring some dvds over for next time. know this wasn't heading for a relationship I dint even have time, but it would be nice to keep him as a friend even.
He was on skype sometimes so I guess he wasn't totally avoiding me, However I removed him from contacts and when I was thinking of re-adding him it asks me to send a request (i didn't) so I guess he removed me after he realised? I had also removed him from my fb but not blocked,
maybe I was too fast too judge him? now I feel bad in case he was decent...
p.s he is a very flirty person generally and when we chatted on skype before hooking up (Btw I already knew him in person) he was pretty flirtatious and often said pervy things, however I noticed he seemed insecure too because he kept asking if I liked tall guys, and if I found him attractive, he even told me he liked me and was interested in me but didn't know if I liked him like that, however this could have been a ploy to just get sex of course...
2 Answers
- ?Lv 44 years ago
the only time this could make a difference to the guy is that if he does not rather LOVE the girl. If a guy rather loves a woman he will wait until she is waiting for him and that's the genuine and utter certainty. you are able to desire to bypass with the aid of some dates earlier you meet the only which waits, yet he's provided. in case you sleep with the guy early on interior the relationship they discover ways to comprehend that they are able to get intercourse certainly from you. This additionally leads to them having jealousy and believe matters in case you finally end up in a relationship with him. intercourse is undesirable information once you're no longer one hundred% particular with regard to the only you're with. examine the e book I point out in my sources!!! i'm no longer a virgin yet i'm additionally no longer having intercourse lower back until i hit upon "the only" now because of the way the e book replaced my physique of ideas. or maybe once I do think of i've got stumbled on "the only", if intercourse is unpleasurable after 3 tries i'm going to be realising he's no longer the only and getting back on the marketplace. stay good female! that is rather worth it for that distinctive guy!
- Anonymous9 years ago
When you remove someone from your skype contacts you have to send them a request to re-add them. You deleted him so he probably noticed you were no longer on his contacts and thought he did something wrong. And you also removed him from your facebook so it seems like you dont want to talk to him. If you do, you should apologize for deleting him. Because he's a bit insecure maybe he didnt want to be the first one to call after you slept together. It was just awkward for both of you and you panicked. Explain that to him and I'm sure he'll understand. He's completely clueless as to whats going on at this point. Good luck xx
