is my husband cheating?

I think your husband is not cheating on you. But what hes doing online is wrong and unfaithful. I think he needs to change that about him. For the spam emails, I think what happen is one of the "porn" website that he signed up in the past, they sold his email to other sites, and then other sites did the same. That's why he ends up with bun of weird emails. It happened to me before, but not porn. I signed up for an online website, but it turns out to be a scam website. So then the next day, I received 100+ weird emails trying to advertise me to their websites which I haven't even heard of! And until today, I still receiving them. Like 3,000+ in my junk mail.

I think he probably did joined few websites, but then those websites gave his email out. And do you really want to allow your husband to watch porn? Because he basically watching other females naked and stuff. . I think you should talk about that with him. Ask him not to watch it anymore. If you feel comfortable enough, why don't you guys make your own porn video? And only him can watch it in lonely time. You know. Spice your sex life up.

I hope I answer your questions. Have a good day.

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have not heard form you in a while

we tallked here and there

etc. etc. and when ever i click them they are a link tio a website that is either a chat line, or a sex line or a dating website, i would estimate i get them at least twice a week it varies more or less according to their advertising compains.

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You get alot of junk mail on whichever sites you go on and sign your email too, I get alot of junk mail about debt solutions since I am currently in debt...

Why does it bother you so much of he watches porn? Some guys need it is all.

Guys will be guys and as long as hes in the end coming home to you not mistreating you or the kids that should all that matter in the end.

People will tell you "oh he's cheating leave him" no I don't feel so, it's gonna be hard to find a guy that doesn't cheat in a way and also if he is cheating on you, as long as he doesn't give you something you are pretty much good here.

Guys will lie and they will cheat, it's either deal with it and have your man or be lonely, women need to realize if they think they are the "only one" in the relationship they are dead wrong, there is always gonna be a main chick (you, the wife) and the side chick, guys need more then one whole to poke in.

Idk if he's cheating on you with an actual person but I think you should stay with him and find something else to do to fill up your time....but before that, talk to him about it, if you have his email password I dobt he will do something stupid like that if he's doing something.

Communication is the key~

Don't go by that. Most people get spam just because marketers are always trying to find valid email addresses. If he's getting that type of stuff, then that is NOT an accurate way to see if he's doing anything. I understand your fear, but if you really want to move forward, then at some point you have to stop looking backward. There is no future in the past.

Listen to your gut feeling. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. He has given you plently of information that there is some kind of sexual issue. And as far as the junk mail...it would go into the spam folder, not junk. Plus, if he doesn't want email to come up on his phone. He can filter certain email addresses to junk/trash and then check them later. Good luck.

I'm a female who has never visited a porn website or even a dating website (they creep me out!), and I get scores of 'hookup with hot girls' and 'date cheating wives' in my spam box. So annoying. I have had this email for several years, so I guess somewhere along the line it got sold to someone shady. All to say, I wouldn't worry about it.

i was ready to give him the benefit of the doubt until you mentioned that he works away.

Most men cheat if they travel interstate, sorry its true, because I have met businessmen in the past.

Well - you have his email ID - so LOG INTO these dating sites and SEE WHEN HIS LAST ACTIVITY WAS. All you have to do is go to the site, select forgot password, have it sent to the email or change it and then you log in and do some snooping.

Good luck.

Everyone gets a lot of spam that they don't want. Some of what I get is semi porn even though I haven't requested it.

So, you can't conclude that the stuff in his spam folder means that he is cheating. But your concerns are justified given his activities with porn and such.

I hope you can get it worked out with him.

Is he trying to be secretive about it. You say he watches porn. Would he do it in front of you? If he's hiding something, whether it's technically cheating or not, it is hurting your marriage. You should have a talk with him and ask him to come clean. If he is evasive, you have your answer.

What he did on the webcam was cheating! And I'm sorry to tell you but if he isn't cheating yet he is looking and planning to. That mail isn't being sent out of nowhere for no reason.