I am in love with a girl who is pretty much Sheldon Cooper form The Big Bang Theory?

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I'm a 16 year old lesbian.  She is my best friend, but the problem is that she is straight, even though she has never dated a single guy in the twos years I've known her, or even had a crush on one.  She's classically beautiful, scary smart and confident, so I'm sure she could get a guy if she wanted to.  She also has issues with physical contact, and while she will hug someone back, she never initiates hugs.  She is the absolute perfect girl, even if she is a little crazy.  Our mutual friend refers to us as Sheldon and Leonard from The Big Bang Theory, and another thinks we are more like Sherlock Holmes and Doctor Watson.  I don't want a great platonic relationship, though.  I seriously love her.  She's weird, but I'm pretty weird too.  When she speaks, the world stops to listen.  Our English class nicknamed her Wikipedia because she knows so much, and a student in our Biology class called her a psychopath because she said that dissecting a human body wouldn't be any more emotionally than dissecting a frog.  I'm making her sound crazy, and maybe she is.  All I know is that I'm crazy in love with her.  Should I tell her?  No one makes me happier than she does.

Squeaky · Accepted Answer

You cant make someone else gay.
Sexual orientation does not require sexual activity.

If she's straight, she's straight and there's nothing you can do about it. 

Sorry.

? · Answer

Aw. That was super sweet! But at the same time it's heartbreaking because of the way this could turn out. At best I'm sure she'll say she's flattered and that she doesn't mind you crushing on her. At worst she could think it's too much for her and pull away. Ultimately, I think she might understand since you two are so close but in the end I don't think she's gonna feel the same way. But you never really know. How do you know she's straight? Has she told you or are you just assuming? It's really up to you if you want to tell her and it might even feel better if you do regardless of the turn out so you can know how she feels. Good luck with that though!

? · Answer

He's so humorous! I like the episode from Season 2 the place he's high on espresso serving to Penny to make her Pennyblossoms and he keeps on saying "BAM" or whatever it was! And then he's dressed as the Flash afterwards. I like the one where Leonard's mum comes to talk over with and Sheldon hits it off with her. And i love the ones where Sheldon's mother comes to talk over with as it can be Laurie Metcalf from Roseanne and he or she's still as funny now. Mum x

I am in love with a girl who is pretty much Sheldon Cooper form The Big Bang Theory?

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