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does my lesbian friend have a crush on me?

We have been friends for two years. In that time, we have had a lot of random, silly fights with art supplies during class that are instigated by her, and seem to be an excuse just to touch me. Second, whenever we are sitting on the floor she puts her head in my lap, and never does that with any of her other friends. Third, she might have asked me out before I knew she was gay and she knew i was straight. She asked me to go to the movies with her, which wouldn't be weird if I didn't know that all of her first dates are movie dates, and the offer has never been extended since. Finally, we were supposed to share a queen sized bed at her brother's house over Christmas, but she took the super uncomfortable armchair instead, because she didn't seem comfortable with the idea of sharing a bed with me. Any thoughts on whether or not she likes me? I only ask because everyone wants to know when someone likes them, even if it not reciprocated.

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    8 years ago
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    well she didnt want to share a bed with you so I doubt it. Try not to focus on such little things like going to the movies or just messing around either, I like to fight with my friend all the time. The lap thing I cant tell you, but you are her best friend (at least it sounds like it) and my straight friends have done things like that to me so I wouldnt assume anything. She very well could though, its always possible and the only way to find out is asking. If she does though its not that big of a deal, she understands you dont feel the same way but instead as good friends and thats how she needs to see it as well or she could lose you.

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