Awkward position wedding invitation.?

Question

Basically I'm male and my best friend is female. She gets married in a few months and asked my girlfriend of 5 years to go to her hen do. My girlfriend has politely declined as she doesn't like large, loud parties and the naked butler they're hiring. 

My friend has now told her that she won't be invited to the wedding if she's not going to the hen do. This puts me in an awful position as I think it's a ridiculous decision. I'm basically being forced to decide who's side to be on. 

What can I do?

James · Accepted Answer

Don't go. Your friend sounds like a b!tchy dumbf=uck.

Anonymous · Answer

Just tell your girlfriend to say 'well you obviously dont want me at your wedding that badly if your doing that!' Or your girlfriend could go to the hen do and then leave when the stripper arrives

Sage Shotts · Answer

Well, personally I'd take my girlfriends side, as your friend is being a bit immature about the situation.

Kieron M · Answer

Your best friend is seemingly a complete eijit about this 
I'd stick up for the girlfriend and tell your friend she is being unfair.

Anonymous · Answer

let them work it out

Awkward position wedding invitation.?

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