I cannot stand my husband's daughter.?

What do you want to happen? Do you want a relationship with her? Let your husband know what you want to happen (if you want him to stick up for you or try to get you guys talking etc.) and maybe talk to her too. If she's being unecessarily rude to you then don't stand for it, but if you just don't like her personality then all you can do is be civil and thank god she isn't still living at home.

I have many times. He agrees she isn't the easiest person to get along with, she is moody, spoiled, petulant and selfish. SO unlike her father who is the complete opposite... it's always a 'walking on eggshells' situation when we are in her company. I guess I'll have to suck it up. Luckily I don't see her that often (by choice). Ugh I cannot bear her 'face like a slapped ar*e'. Shame as she is a pretty girl.

This is hard to answer without knowing how long you have been married, how things were before you married, whether or not you live in the same house as she does and a few other things!

Everyone (you and me included) had their "good" and "bad" points. Focus on the good ones - those that her friends and family see. If she is unkind/unpleasant, she is probably unhappy - there is a strong correlation here.

Most - all? people respond to love. Try to love her more - not necessarily her outer personality or her behaviour, but the person she is.

So, what's your question?

If you would like, I will volunteer to take this pretty young woman off your hands. I am sure after a few weeks with me, she will have a whole new attitude.

Talk it out with your husband!

Sad news, but what is your question?

nothing you can do about it except stay away from her