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Annoying 'friend' just got back in contact!!?

A girl I used to work with latched herself onto me. As she was a new person at work I obviously included her in lunches and such like with other members of staff. However, she didn't make any attempt to make her own work-friends and she targeted all of her attention onto me! I have since left that job (not because of her, but was relieved I didn't have to see her every day).

She is essentially a nice person but incredibly NEEDY and quite immature (she is 40). She started to bombard me with texts and emails, send me gifts and all the time looking for assurances for this and that etc.

She is a devout Christian so I encouraged her to join a church / local group etc which she did, but she said she couldn't connect with the people there. So I said, try a different church! So you see, how she started relying on me for advice etc in everything!.

It finally got too much and I began to limit my contact with her as I felt so stifled by it. I didn't reply to all her texts/email bombardments but told her as nicely as I could that she was too much and gradually she didn't contact me. There is so much more to tell but you're limited on here to x amount of words!

I got a letter from her yesterday asking to go for a coffee 'no pressure'. Quite an old fashioned way of contact but I don't know what to make of it? Any advice is welcome, but I really don't want to get back into the 'friendship' as it took over my life.

Helpful advice welcome.

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

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  • 4 years ago

    I'm going to 'sit' on the letter for a while and decide whether to respond (or not!!). It IS creepy and she is creepy. I've blocked her on social media as she was constantly putting selfies on there so obviously she is insecure. She has since latched herself onto another lady who seems to like all the attention so that's good! Thank you for all your good advice.

  • y
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Have you blocked her on social media and such or do you still respond once in a while to emails and such.

    The letter, could be a last resort to be able to get in touch with you depending on your above actions. If you have on occasion still responded, then it may be she finally got some help and realized how crazy she was and wants to sit, apologize and such. If you basically have stopped all contact, then it's just more crazy stalker BS.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    If she had such an effect on your life then you need to cut off all ties with her. Just don't reply at all even if it seems rude to you. She may be a nice person and all but she's not good for you. She will eventually find someone else to hang with and you just forget about it all.

  • Blunt
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Don't go out with her. The letter thing is just creepy.

  • 4 years ago

    you've really got a friend that extremely likes you. you are gonna break her heart if u dont respond at least a lesser contact, not necessarily always gonna hang out with her, but shes obviously some kind of an introvert person based on what you have described. you should probably bring a company with you together with her. I hope you're gonna be okay.

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