Marriage: How can I find a solution?

) mhhh: Feel numbly that,s sweet,other wise waiting with people like ya,gives us irritation of years of life!!!

There's nothing there, chief. It's amazing how many people on here can't ask a simple question. No one's asking you to do something difficult.

One rather wonders what your problem is! Reading books like Dr Phil McGraw's excellent Relationship Rescue helps to give us deeper insights into how relationships work. (I wish I got commission, as I recommend it to so many people!). As he writes in the book, it isn't only or people whose relationships are in trouble. There are other excellent books, of course.

I see nothing "BELOW."

Is it a problem because you are married or because you are not? If it's a problem because you are NOT married then meet some women. If it's a problem because you ARE married then kill your wife. But make sure you have lots of life insurance.

looking way, way below

Don't do it is the solution.