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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 week ago

why are Americans so unsensitive?

I live in a situation where I have no family up here, no where to go, my husband knows I wanna divorce his *** because of the way he treats me. I have no money because I recently started a new job and the money the gov gave us he kept it all because he pays most of the bills, when I have medical bills for when we had our daughter and all I have receive from American people is, stones so to speak, that I am stupid, that I don't deserve that money, that my English sucks. I HAVE NO MONEY, NO WHERE TO GO and I live in the state of MS the ONLY state where you have to have grounds for divorce. I HAVE NO CREDIT FOR A HOUSE and now my husband wants to take me to live somewhere I don't want to be ALL I am asking for is a normal life. And I have receive NO good things from Americans in this forum I used to refuse to hate ANYONE but now I am starting to understand why the rest of the world hates Americans, are ALL Americans this unsensitive?? I feel dragged by a monstroucious river to the point I have even considered suicide and NO ONE has given me a little bit of piece of mind why????

Updated 6 days ago:

ndmama, you are the perfect example of piece of s  h  i  t that I am talking about, my situation is REAL and I won't go back home though God knows I wish, and I would if I could take my kids with me, which if I haven't gotten divorce is because I don't wanna lose them, pendejete de mierda

Updated 6 days ago:

claude have merci, my situation is real now I see why the rest of the world hate americans like you, and the cookie shove it off your ***

Updated 6 days ago:

you don't have to see my endless??? pendejete de mierda? I wish when you have children they will be in the EXACT same situation I am and see how you will like it IDIOTA PEDAZO DE BASURA

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 days ago

    You can obtain a free initial consultation with a divorce attorney, who might be able to advise you on alimony, child support, division of assets, protecting yourself and your child. Do so.

    I have no basis for comparison as to how you might otherwise be treated in a different country or culture. But I do know that women can be terribly mistreated in some Moslem countries, abused, not permitted to go out unescorted by men, not allowed to take their children  if they are divorced, or leave the country, can have acid thrown in their faces , or be killed if they fall in love with someone the family disapproves of, and more.

    There are indeed laws , here, designed to protect you. You also need to get a job and to keep a separate bank account. Good luck, good wishes,

  • Anonymous
    7 days ago

    You have grounds which you've just described.  Your attorney said you have no grounds?  Find another attorney.  You are the only person who can give yourself peace of mind.  BTW, based on your use of the English language, AFTER the divorce what is your plan for supporting yourself?

  • n2mama
    Lv 7
    7 days ago

    What peace of mind would you like? Do you expect someone to believe your story and offer you money? I am sure you have been advised to seek a womens shelter for help, which is what many abused women with no assets of their own do. But it appears you haven’t done that. If you won’t help yourself, how could anyone here help you? 

    Incidentally, your understanding of divorce laws in MS is not 100% correct. If you want to divorce your husband, you should at least see about getting a free consultation with a lawyer who can advise you in the steps to take. All that said, since you hate Americans so much, why bother with a divorce at all? Just go back to your home country and live your life. The lack of a divorce in the U.S. shouldn’t impact you there. And while your family may not be close by, surely they would send you the money you need to get a plane ticket back home and get out of your horrible situation.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 days ago

    it's insensitive. unsensitive is not a word. and more likely we are not insensitive but desensitized to troll posts and sob stories because there are so many of them posted and reposted/ Since Mississippi recognizes "no-fault" grounds for divorce, you can end your marriage on the basis of "irreconcilable differences," which is just a fancy way of saying you and your spouse can't get along anymore,  When I left my ex husband 31 years ago I had nothing but a minimum wage job which at that time was 4.25 an hour. 130 bucks a week after taxes. 

  • 7 days ago

    Wah wah wah, you want a wolf cookie?

  • Anonymous
    1 week ago

    I sure will be glad when Yahoo Answers is dead and I don't have to see your endless whining about this any more.

  • Anonymous
    1 week ago

    I'm sorry for you situation, if you're telling the truth, but I don't really know what your question is. What are you actually asking us? What kind of information can we give you? Why did you marry this jerk in the first place? Please get yourself an attorney. Ranting about your problems here will do you no good at all. 

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