Would you feel jealous if a girl you were (sorta seeing) found your friend hot?

Question

So theres a girl you hooked up with a couple of times, you havent been able to hang recently as youre busy due to your studies. But you get on well with her and seem to have a lot in common and she really likes you.

Would you feel jealous to find out she found your friend really really hot ? (not that she says it infront of you but you heard through her friend)

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here's the thing, even if she finds your friend hot, it doesnt really change the fact that you two have alot in common and like each others company. what it sounds like to me is that you clearly miss her and dont want other people interferring in a possible relationship. i would almost say she has control over where your heart is. possible theories:

1. She could be testing you by saying that to her friend either knowing she'll tell you or she'll tell her friend to inform you to see how you react to such a situation.

2.Even if she does thinks he's hot you have to make her want you, by making sure you are the only thing on her mind ;)

3.If you start to worry, she might be expecting you to get jealous so don't mention anything either way whatever the situation is.

All in all, you shold test her...just to see what's going on in her head, you could also start reading up on body language (which is what i do and is sooo perfect for everything and i think everyone should know it) so see what is going through her head most of the time. if you do decide to "test" her....1. dont make it obvoius 2.dont do the same thing like saying one of her friends is hot...doing that should get you wearing the pants again in this "relationship", but remember: she can (and you can) do whatever you want considering you are not in an actual relationship.

GOOD LUCK ;D

Would you feel jealous if a girl you were (sorta seeing) found your friend hot?

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