Should my friend leave his girlfriend?

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I'm in such an awkward situation and didn't know what to say to my friend earlier today.

Basically, he's been seeing someone for past 5 months and is falling hard especially lately, then earlier in the week she told him she's transgender and used to be a man.

My friend was shocked and didn't know if he should keep it up or dump her. I didn't know what to say without without upsetting him or being transphobic or anything. I also have never had such an episode so can't relate to how he must feel.

Before she told him, he was crazy about her and now is extremely stressed.

What do you think I should advise him? I got uncomfortable on phone and promised I'd call him back but am dreading it.

reme_1 · Answer

He might want to call the gay center and ask for the trans support group. If you have no experience with this issue yoy may not have be able to be supportive.

Anonymous · Answer

This would never happen. There are zero MTFs that pass once their clothes come off. Zero.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell your friend to dump that crazy man and then report him for "rape by deception."

Your friend was used and abused by this criminal tranny.

? · Answer

People over react because being trans is something that is new and different and they suddenly think their whole life is going to change. If he's been talking, sleeping with and enjoying time with this person why do they think it's going to be different now?

It's not like they've told him they are a Trump supporter

Anonymous · Answer

Does he love her? Simple as that. Yes or no.

Chris Dorito · Answer

There's nothing wrong with being with a trans person, but a person shouldn't feel pressured to stay with someone that makes them uncomfortable

? · Answer

That is up to your friend.  But, can he accept it or not. Because he can not change what she is or was.

Should my friend leave his girlfriend?

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